"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm Confused. I need some advice about approaching women

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So I came into the UK from Africa, not so long ago, for some official government sponsored military training and would be here for a while.

I see a handful of British ladies that I like undergoing the same training as me, now I'm totally confused as whether to ask one of them out, or just hold on and wait for the one that likes me to make her intentions known to me.

The dilemma is that if I should ask any of my love interests out and she rejects me (she might not be interested in African guys or for whatever reason), it would really do some damage as we're going to have to keep seeing each other daily. On the other hand, if I dont make any move, I might never get to know what's on her mind till I go back home....and live with the regret of not making the move.

I'm not totally new to TRP, but I only have so much time to spend here as I would be back to my country by the end of the Summer and wouldnt want to miss this opportunity.

I know we have experienced gentlemen in the house, understand my dilemma, please I would love to hear your constructive advice, and would appreciate if you don't judge me. Thank you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don’t worry about what they think. Go to areas where Africans are and you will be fine.
 
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