"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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im confused, help

princesimba

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i appreciate all your honest comments, i really do. :)

So igetit!, what you're trying to tell me is basically, "be less arrogant", or "be more confident"?

Cos i was genuinely shocked, i really expected to her to be swept off her feet. I wasnt faking anything.

I appreciate you diagnosing my problems so accurately but you didnt tell me what i could do
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LoneWolf said:
that's why i don't like dating "hot girls" - they make you jump hoops just to simply get to know them better. too many mind games for me man!

go find a decent non mind playing girl who is straight up with everything. like when i tell my gf, lets do something. she'll say no or yes. she's so easy going everything is smooth between us so far. no mind games.
Erm I've found hot girls to have less issues than normal girls (apart from a few being kind of up themselves)
 
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