"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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princesimba

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i appreciate all your honest comments, i really do. :)

So igetit!, what you're trying to tell me is basically, "be less arrogant", or "be more confident"?

Cos i was genuinely shocked, i really expected to her to be swept off her feet. I wasnt faking anything.

I appreciate you diagnosing my problems so accurately but you didnt tell me what i could do
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LoneWolf said:
that's why i don't like dating "hot girls" - they make you jump hoops just to simply get to know them better. too many mind games for me man!

go find a decent non mind playing girl who is straight up with everything. like when i tell my gf, lets do something. she'll say no or yes. she's so easy going everything is smooth between us so far. no mind games.
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Erm I've found hot girls to have less issues than normal girls (apart from a few being kind of up themselves)
 
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