"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm calling it quits on dating sites

BlackMack177

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from now on i'm gonna call it quits on the dating sites. Reasoning is that there are no quality chicks on there. At least not in my area.

I'm a dark skinned black dude, athletic body, who likes his black women, But no matter how hard i look all of the black chicks on there are fat/have kids. All of the white chicks won't give me the time of day it seems, and all of the super super hot chicks never respond.

Online dating in general is too much work for what it is worth. you have to go through the bullsh1t message spam hoping that they at least respond. Then after that you exchange messages. then after that you talk and set up a date. Now i'm not sure about you guys, but I don't like the mystery of online dating. Chicks can lie in a million ways these days with photos. I've had numerous chicks with photos 5 years old from high school when they looked good as fvck, only to turn out big as a friggin house when i actually saw them in person....not cool man. I don't do fat chicks.

I suppose if it's one thing i've learned from this, it's that "average" "curvy", or anything similar means Fat as hell. Beware the boob/ass only shots also. Fat chicks tend to take pictures of only their best features in order to draw in attention. And also beware the angle shot and the various other techniques these whales use to hide their weight.

But iI digress. I guess the main point is that online dating is only good as a secondary means to find chicks if and only if you have nothing else to do and are bored. Never use it as a primary dating vehicle. It is a waste of time and is ultimately more trouble than it's worth.

I'd rather get rejected in person so at least I know where I stand. I'd rather meet chicks in person so that I know that there won't be any surprises when I meet up for a date.

Leave the online dating to the fat chicks and the simps on eharmony

If i'm picking up chicks online. I'm sticking to facebook, which is the only place that i've had any real success
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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women haze

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It's hard for us black men period...just keep going out. Keep your head up man
The internet dating scene is wack for us. It's just better to talk to chicks in real life.
 

acw

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Internet dating is hard for any guy....black,white, lat-tin, Chinese,etc

Internet dating sites are 90percent dudes...and 10 percent women. How many emails do you think the average chick gets? Probably 100's a day!

Suckers game....Forget that chit!
 
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