"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm calling it quits on dating sites

BlackMack177

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from now on i'm gonna call it quits on the dating sites. Reasoning is that there are no quality chicks on there. At least not in my area.

I'm a dark skinned black dude, athletic body, who likes his black women, But no matter how hard i look all of the black chicks on there are fat/have kids. All of the white chicks won't give me the time of day it seems, and all of the super super hot chicks never respond.

Online dating in general is too much work for what it is worth. you have to go through the bullsh1t message spam hoping that they at least respond. Then after that you exchange messages. then after that you talk and set up a date. Now i'm not sure about you guys, but I don't like the mystery of online dating. Chicks can lie in a million ways these days with photos. I've had numerous chicks with photos 5 years old from high school when they looked good as fvck, only to turn out big as a friggin house when i actually saw them in person....not cool man. I don't do fat chicks.

I suppose if it's one thing i've learned from this, it's that "average" "curvy", or anything similar means Fat as hell. Beware the boob/ass only shots also. Fat chicks tend to take pictures of only their best features in order to draw in attention. And also beware the angle shot and the various other techniques these whales use to hide their weight.

But iI digress. I guess the main point is that online dating is only good as a secondary means to find chicks if and only if you have nothing else to do and are bored. Never use it as a primary dating vehicle. It is a waste of time and is ultimately more trouble than it's worth.

I'd rather get rejected in person so at least I know where I stand. I'd rather meet chicks in person so that I know that there won't be any surprises when I meet up for a date.

Leave the online dating to the fat chicks and the simps on eharmony

If i'm picking up chicks online. I'm sticking to facebook, which is the only place that i've had any real success
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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women haze

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It's hard for us black men period...just keep going out. Keep your head up man
The internet dating scene is wack for us. It's just better to talk to chicks in real life.
 

acw

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Internet dating is hard for any guy....black,white, lat-tin, Chinese,etc

Internet dating sites are 90percent dudes...and 10 percent women. How many emails do you think the average chick gets? Probably 100's a day!

Suckers game....Forget that chit!
 
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