"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm busy for some weeks but want to keep her hot

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Hey guys. I've known this girl for a bit, recently been on a proper date and there's good interest by both. So I want to make the next date an evening thing, not expecting sex but certainly some escalation!

But I don't have time the next 2 weekends, so I want to keep her hot during that time. What to do?

I don't want to text/call her too much - we're not really romantic yet and she's not very playful either. If I fluff talk any more I'll become her best friend but not a lover.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OK, I admit we don't have a strong connection... to be honest I find her personality a bit dull. But I have the hots for her beautiful face! And body. Which is why I'm still interested... would be such a shame ;)
 
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I personally like the use of funny pics (especially if you took it - but if not, something funny off the net will do) that don't require a reply.

Similarly, funny one liners that don't need to start a convo "Holy sh!t I just saw this super fat chick sitting at starbucks with a donut in each hand. Have some pride!!" (ok that was lame but I can't think of anything else right now).

You can also substitute "interesting" for either one (baddass urban art, cool car, 3 legged horse, whatever).

She can reply with a STATEMENT "lol" or "cool" or "gross I hate fat people" in which case you LEAVE IT ALONE.

Or, she might ask questions that can lead to a brief convo "where is that?" or "what kind of donuts". Answer the questions in a witty way, then LEAVE IT ALONE.

If she uses a generally LAME convo starter "haha, how you been" you say "epic" then LEAVE IT ALONE.

Best reply from her: "haha that's awesome. I miss seeing you, can't wait til next weekend" to which you reply "I'll make it worth the wait" then LEAVE IT ALONE.

Hope that helps.
 
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if your confident enough i would just leave her boil for 2 weeks

before you do this though , i will advise that she will likely already know wether your confident enough to leave her for 2 weeks so think that over ;)
 
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