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I'm busy for some weeks but want to keep her hot

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Hey guys. I've known this girl for a bit, recently been on a proper date and there's good interest by both. So I want to make the next date an evening thing, not expecting sex but certainly some escalation!

But I don't have time the next 2 weekends, so I want to keep her hot during that time. What to do?

I don't want to text/call her too much - we're not really romantic yet and she's not very playful either. If I fluff talk any more I'll become her best friend but not a lover.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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OK, I admit we don't have a strong connection... to be honest I find her personality a bit dull. But I have the hots for her beautiful face! And body. Which is why I'm still interested... would be such a shame ;)
 
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I personally like the use of funny pics (especially if you took it - but if not, something funny off the net will do) that don't require a reply.

Similarly, funny one liners that don't need to start a convo "Holy sh!t I just saw this super fat chick sitting at starbucks with a donut in each hand. Have some pride!!" (ok that was lame but I can't think of anything else right now).

You can also substitute "interesting" for either one (baddass urban art, cool car, 3 legged horse, whatever).

She can reply with a STATEMENT "lol" or "cool" or "gross I hate fat people" in which case you LEAVE IT ALONE.

Or, she might ask questions that can lead to a brief convo "where is that?" or "what kind of donuts". Answer the questions in a witty way, then LEAVE IT ALONE.

If she uses a generally LAME convo starter "haha, how you been" you say "epic" then LEAVE IT ALONE.

Best reply from her: "haha that's awesome. I miss seeing you, can't wait til next weekend" to which you reply "I'll make it worth the wait" then LEAVE IT ALONE.

Hope that helps.
 
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if your confident enough i would just leave her boil for 2 weeks

before you do this though , i will advise that she will likely already know wether your confident enough to leave her for 2 weeks so think that over ;)
 
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