"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Im broke but this girl is "spoiled" in her own words. Help?

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this girl i knew from work 15 months ago has recently popped back up (works at my new gym!) and i know she thought i was cute back then and shes a real cuttie too. she's with the same dude she was with back then but she been tellin me (we been Text Messaging the last few days) she is getting tired of it because the temptation makes it hard and she seems bored with him. I'm thinkin i could easily take her BUT she is all about shopping with mom and has told me a few times that she is materialistic and spoiled (by her fam) which is fine with me except I dont have money like that. in fact i owe $2,000 on my credit card that Im paying off and going over seas next month for 2 weeks so im saving for that. Should i even attempt? especially cuz she works at my gym so i will have to see her, no question.

I'm thinking its possible that this girl with a boring man would enjoy cheap romanticism (which i have mastered, lol).

Ideas on this chick?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you want from this girl? A relationship or just some ass?
 
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mostly ass but me and her use to get along well so a relationship wouldnt be out of question. but if i had to pick JUST one i would say ass.


i was thinkin about it more and getting a girl to cheat on her guy, i dunno if im about that, and plus it could come back to bite me in the ass in the future, lol.
 
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She can buy clothes all she wants but she still needs a man if she wants some action right?

The money really has nothing to do with it in the short term. Maybe for some LTR goals/habit etc matter. Be cool, show her a good time, get some action and let mom and her girlfriends buy her things.
 
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You don't have to have lots of money to get a girl - sure, it helps you do things like go out to different places, but there's no reason for you to be spending it on gifts for her. If you can get her, do so! If money becomes a "requirement" for your continued relationship, call her a golddigger and see what her reaction is.

Sounds to me like you could use her money to your own advantage - if she has it, see if you can't get her to spend it... on you. :p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by diablo
Sounds to me like you could use her money to your own advantage - if she has it, see if you can't get her to spend it... on you. :p
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tru, never considered the "suga mama" possibility, lol. I know this guy who gets girls to just fork over money and give him **** after like a week of knowing him. Ima see what advice i can get from him and see what happens.
 
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