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Im broke but this girl is "spoiled" in her own words. Help?

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this girl i knew from work 15 months ago has recently popped back up (works at my new gym!) and i know she thought i was cute back then and shes a real cuttie too. she's with the same dude she was with back then but she been tellin me (we been Text Messaging the last few days) she is getting tired of it because the temptation makes it hard and she seems bored with him. I'm thinkin i could easily take her BUT she is all about shopping with mom and has told me a few times that she is materialistic and spoiled (by her fam) which is fine with me except I dont have money like that. in fact i owe $2,000 on my credit card that Im paying off and going over seas next month for 2 weeks so im saving for that. Should i even attempt? especially cuz she works at my gym so i will have to see her, no question.

I'm thinking its possible that this girl with a boring man would enjoy cheap romanticism (which i have mastered, lol).

Ideas on this chick?
 

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What do you want from this girl? A relationship or just some ass?
 
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mostly ass but me and her use to get along well so a relationship wouldnt be out of question. but if i had to pick JUST one i would say ass.


i was thinkin about it more and getting a girl to cheat on her guy, i dunno if im about that, and plus it could come back to bite me in the ass in the future, lol.
 
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She can buy clothes all she wants but she still needs a man if she wants some action right?

The money really has nothing to do with it in the short term. Maybe for some LTR goals/habit etc matter. Be cool, show her a good time, get some action and let mom and her girlfriends buy her things.
 
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You don't have to have lots of money to get a girl - sure, it helps you do things like go out to different places, but there's no reason for you to be spending it on gifts for her. If you can get her, do so! If money becomes a "requirement" for your continued relationship, call her a golddigger and see what her reaction is.

Sounds to me like you could use her money to your own advantage - if she has it, see if you can't get her to spend it... on you. :p
 

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She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by diablo
Sounds to me like you could use her money to your own advantage - if she has it, see if you can't get her to spend it... on you. :p
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tru, never considered the "suga mama" possibility, lol. I know this guy who gets girls to just fork over money and give him **** after like a week of knowing him. Ima see what advice i can get from him and see what happens.
 
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