"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm better at picking up women then you.

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That's right, you heard me, I'm better then you at scoring with women. Does such a suggestion make you mad? Does it make you angry? Does it make you want to reach over and hit that down rep button?

Good, because logically, it should. Bare with me for a second though, if you let such a simple thing such as what I said affect you, then how the flying fvck do you expect to attract women?

What would you gain from hitting that down rep button, or replying to me in anger? All you are doing is wasting your own damn time, I don't care about your silly opinions.
Don't just work up your anger and say such things as "how dare he suggests he attracts more women then me!"

Use it as a reason, a reason to actually score more women, then look at yourself in the mirror and ask this - "is this what I really want?"
Because in the end, what you really want is most important, and you should always be pursuing that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nroug7 said:
That's right, you heard me, I'm better then you at scoring with women. Does such a suggestion make you mad? Does it make you angry? Does it make you want to reach over and hit that down rep button?

Good, because logically, it should. Bare with me for a second though, if you let such a simple thing such as what I said affect you, then how the flying fvck do you expect to attract women?

What would you gain from hitting that down rep button, or replying to me in anger? All you are doing is wasting your own damn time, I don't care about your silly opinions.
Don't just work up your anger and say such things as "how dare he suggests he attracts more women then me!"

Use it as a reason, a reason to actually score more women, then look at yourself in the mirror and ask this - "is this what I really want?"
Because in the end, what you really want is most important, and you should always be pursuing that.

What do you REALLY want ? ;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What one wants is something they never know. And when do you actually achieve it, it's no longer wanted. Life is boring that way, therefore meaningless sex is an escape that everyone including the female gender turn to. Actually your suggestion there didn't bother me as I clearly know there is always someone better then you. All you can do is actually keep growing, the new generation will always surpass the older one, therefore we all will suck in comparison later on. But to get to my point aslong as you show your value, small things will become easier, when the small things are easy, well. Your done. It's not the big things that are hard to change, it's always the little things that bothers people. And I agree with you, it's always about what you want, not what everyone else wants of you.
 

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Jaffers said:
What one wants is something they never know. And when do you actually achieve it, it's no longer wanted. Life is boring that way, therefore meaningless sex is an escape that everyone including the female gender turn to. Actually your suggestion there didn't bother me as I clearly know there is always someone better then you. All you can do is actually keep growing, the new generation will always surpass the older one, therefore we all will suck in comparison later on. But to get to my point aslong as you show your value, small things will become easier, when the small things are easy, well. Your done. It's not the big things that are hard to change, it's always the little things that bothers people. And I agree with you, it's always about what you want, not what everyone else wants of you.
I think that what person really wants, or should want, is to keep growing, that way, they can never reach their goal but only keep getting better.
 

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I know, all thought the patience that involves doing so is extreme. And a lot of people will lose track of their goal that way. It's a lot easier to for example have a crappy job to go there, if you have a goal in mind, for example. A person all he dose everyday is pushing a button in a factory, to make buttons. It's not hard it's mentally tiring and you're not allowed to listen to music as there could be some warning siren or whatever. So you stand there all alone, bored to death, then your goal needs to e something more stimulating. Like I'm going to go on a vacation for three weeks in one month the more times I press this button, the more money I'll have to waste on things that I want but don't need. Sometimes a goal needs to be more material or focused then just growing. But your end goal in life should be growing I do agree with that.
 

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Jaffers said:
I know, all thought the patience that involves doing so is extreme. And a lot of people will lose track of their goal that way. It's a lot easier to for example have a crappy job to go there, if you have a goal in mind, for example. A person all he dose everyday is pushing a button in a factory, to make buttons. It's not hard it's mentally tiring and you're not allowed to listen to music as there could be some warning siren or whatever. So you stand there all alone, bored to death, then your goal needs to e something more stimulating. Like I'm going to go on a vacation for three weeks in one month the more times I press this button, the more money I'll have to waste on things that I want but don't need. Sometimes a goal needs to be more material or focused then just growing. But your end goal in life should be growing I do agree with that.
Attraction to money and material should be considered a natural part of growth, the more you grow, the higher you go. The higher you go the more you earn, the more you earn you can spend on doing bigger things, getting better clothes etc which make your growth apparent and help you move higher.

But to understand this, a person has to first get what they think they want. Only when they understand the disappointment can they understand the best truth - we have long lives of 80 or more years, and it's better to spend them growing rather then doing the same old job of pushing a button for the rest of your life.
 

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I agree, I was just pointing out that having your goal being growth would get extremely tiring after awhile as you cannot reach the end of it. The point is that you should have smaller goal that pushes you forward even if they are useless it's just something you want for that moment. It would help the outcome of your growth as it will feel as if you accomplished something.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Recipe for egg sandwich:
Ingredients


Original recipe makes 4 servings

2 teaspoons butter

4 eggs

4 slices processed American cheese

8 slices toasted white bread

salt and pepper to taste

2 tablespoons mayonnaise

2 tablespoons ketchup
Directions

In a large skillet, melt butter over medium high heat. Crack eggs in pan and cook to desired firmness. Just before eggs are cooked, place a slice of cheese over each egg.
After cheese has melted, place each egg on a toasted slice of bread. Season eggs with salt and pepper. Spread mayonnaise and ketchup on remaining slices of bread and cover eggs with bread to make 4 sandwiches. Serve warm.
 

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switch said:
Recipe for egg sandwich:
Ingredients


Original recipe makes 4 servings

2 teaspoons butter

4 eggs

4 slices processed American cheese

8 slices toasted white bread

salt and pepper to taste

2 tablespoons mayonnaise

2 tablespoons ketchup
Directions

In a large skillet, melt butter over medium high heat. Crack eggs in pan and cook to desired firmness. Just before eggs are cooked, place a slice of cheese over each egg.
After cheese has melted, place each egg on a toasted slice of bread. Season eggs with salt and pepper. Spread mayonnaise and ketchup on remaining slices of bread and cover eggs with bread to make 4 sandwiches. Serve warm.

Sounds too tasty for this thread
 

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switch said:
Recipe for egg sandwich:
Ingredients


Original recipe makes 4 servings

2 teaspoons butter

4 eggs

4 slices processed American cheese

8 slices toasted white bread

salt and pepper to taste

2 tablespoons mayonnaise

2 tablespoons ketchup
Directions

In a large skillet, melt butter over medium high heat. Crack eggs in pan and cook to desired firmness. Just before eggs are cooked, place a slice of cheese over each egg.
After cheese has melted, place each egg on a toasted slice of bread. Season eggs with salt and pepper. Spread mayonnaise and ketchup on remaining slices of bread and cover eggs with bread to make 4 sandwiches. Serve warm.
American cheese? Never heard of that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cool story bro
 

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nroug7 said:
That's right, you heard me, I'm better then you at scoring with women. Does such a suggestion make you mad? Does it make you angry? Does it make you want to reach over and hit that down rep button?
My gut reaction is: So what?
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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