"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm better at picking up women then you.

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That's right, you heard me, I'm better then you at scoring with women. Does such a suggestion make you mad? Does it make you angry? Does it make you want to reach over and hit that down rep button?

Good, because logically, it should. Bare with me for a second though, if you let such a simple thing such as what I said affect you, then how the flying fvck do you expect to attract women?

What would you gain from hitting that down rep button, or replying to me in anger? All you are doing is wasting your own damn time, I don't care about your silly opinions.
Don't just work up your anger and say such things as "how dare he suggests he attracts more women then me!"

Use it as a reason, a reason to actually score more women, then look at yourself in the mirror and ask this - "is this what I really want?"
Because in the end, what you really want is most important, and you should always be pursuing that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nroug7 said:
That's right, you heard me, I'm better then you at scoring with women. Does such a suggestion make you mad? Does it make you angry? Does it make you want to reach over and hit that down rep button?

Good, because logically, it should. Bare with me for a second though, if you let such a simple thing such as what I said affect you, then how the flying fvck do you expect to attract women?

What would you gain from hitting that down rep button, or replying to me in anger? All you are doing is wasting your own damn time, I don't care about your silly opinions.
Don't just work up your anger and say such things as "how dare he suggests he attracts more women then me!"

Use it as a reason, a reason to actually score more women, then look at yourself in the mirror and ask this - "is this what I really want?"
Because in the end, what you really want is most important, and you should always be pursuing that.

What do you REALLY want ? ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What one wants is something they never know. And when do you actually achieve it, it's no longer wanted. Life is boring that way, therefore meaningless sex is an escape that everyone including the female gender turn to. Actually your suggestion there didn't bother me as I clearly know there is always someone better then you. All you can do is actually keep growing, the new generation will always surpass the older one, therefore we all will suck in comparison later on. But to get to my point aslong as you show your value, small things will become easier, when the small things are easy, well. Your done. It's not the big things that are hard to change, it's always the little things that bothers people. And I agree with you, it's always about what you want, not what everyone else wants of you.
 

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Jaffers said:
What one wants is something they never know. And when do you actually achieve it, it's no longer wanted. Life is boring that way, therefore meaningless sex is an escape that everyone including the female gender turn to. Actually your suggestion there didn't bother me as I clearly know there is always someone better then you. All you can do is actually keep growing, the new generation will always surpass the older one, therefore we all will suck in comparison later on. But to get to my point aslong as you show your value, small things will become easier, when the small things are easy, well. Your done. It's not the big things that are hard to change, it's always the little things that bothers people. And I agree with you, it's always about what you want, not what everyone else wants of you.
I think that what person really wants, or should want, is to keep growing, that way, they can never reach their goal but only keep getting better.
 

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I know, all thought the patience that involves doing so is extreme. And a lot of people will lose track of their goal that way. It's a lot easier to for example have a crappy job to go there, if you have a goal in mind, for example. A person all he dose everyday is pushing a button in a factory, to make buttons. It's not hard it's mentally tiring and you're not allowed to listen to music as there could be some warning siren or whatever. So you stand there all alone, bored to death, then your goal needs to e something more stimulating. Like I'm going to go on a vacation for three weeks in one month the more times I press this button, the more money I'll have to waste on things that I want but don't need. Sometimes a goal needs to be more material or focused then just growing. But your end goal in life should be growing I do agree with that.
 

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Jaffers said:
I know, all thought the patience that involves doing so is extreme. And a lot of people will lose track of their goal that way. It's a lot easier to for example have a crappy job to go there, if you have a goal in mind, for example. A person all he dose everyday is pushing a button in a factory, to make buttons. It's not hard it's mentally tiring and you're not allowed to listen to music as there could be some warning siren or whatever. So you stand there all alone, bored to death, then your goal needs to e something more stimulating. Like I'm going to go on a vacation for three weeks in one month the more times I press this button, the more money I'll have to waste on things that I want but don't need. Sometimes a goal needs to be more material or focused then just growing. But your end goal in life should be growing I do agree with that.
Attraction to money and material should be considered a natural part of growth, the more you grow, the higher you go. The higher you go the more you earn, the more you earn you can spend on doing bigger things, getting better clothes etc which make your growth apparent and help you move higher.

But to understand this, a person has to first get what they think they want. Only when they understand the disappointment can they understand the best truth - we have long lives of 80 or more years, and it's better to spend them growing rather then doing the same old job of pushing a button for the rest of your life.
 

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I agree, I was just pointing out that having your goal being growth would get extremely tiring after awhile as you cannot reach the end of it. The point is that you should have smaller goal that pushes you forward even if they are useless it's just something you want for that moment. It would help the outcome of your growth as it will feel as if you accomplished something.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Recipe for egg sandwich:
Ingredients


Original recipe makes 4 servings

2 teaspoons butter

4 eggs

4 slices processed American cheese

8 slices toasted white bread

salt and pepper to taste

2 tablespoons mayonnaise

2 tablespoons ketchup
Directions

In a large skillet, melt butter over medium high heat. Crack eggs in pan and cook to desired firmness. Just before eggs are cooked, place a slice of cheese over each egg.
After cheese has melted, place each egg on a toasted slice of bread. Season eggs with salt and pepper. Spread mayonnaise and ketchup on remaining slices of bread and cover eggs with bread to make 4 sandwiches. Serve warm.
 

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Recipe for egg sandwich:
Ingredients


Original recipe makes 4 servings

2 teaspoons butter

4 eggs

4 slices processed American cheese

8 slices toasted white bread

salt and pepper to taste

2 tablespoons mayonnaise

2 tablespoons ketchup
Directions

In a large skillet, melt butter over medium high heat. Crack eggs in pan and cook to desired firmness. Just before eggs are cooked, place a slice of cheese over each egg.
After cheese has melted, place each egg on a toasted slice of bread. Season eggs with salt and pepper. Spread mayonnaise and ketchup on remaining slices of bread and cover eggs with bread to make 4 sandwiches. Serve warm.

Sounds too tasty for this thread
 

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switch said:
Recipe for egg sandwich:
Ingredients


Original recipe makes 4 servings

2 teaspoons butter

4 eggs

4 slices processed American cheese

8 slices toasted white bread

salt and pepper to taste

2 tablespoons mayonnaise

2 tablespoons ketchup
Directions

In a large skillet, melt butter over medium high heat. Crack eggs in pan and cook to desired firmness. Just before eggs are cooked, place a slice of cheese over each egg.
After cheese has melted, place each egg on a toasted slice of bread. Season eggs with salt and pepper. Spread mayonnaise and ketchup on remaining slices of bread and cover eggs with bread to make 4 sandwiches. Serve warm.
American cheese? Never heard of that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cool story bro
 

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nroug7 said:
That's right, you heard me, I'm better then you at scoring with women. Does such a suggestion make you mad? Does it make you angry? Does it make you want to reach over and hit that down rep button?
My gut reaction is: So what?
 

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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