Today I was informed that there is a girl stalking my posts on here and running back to facebook to tell other girls on my friends list about the stuff I post here. How she found this site, or me for that matter, I have no idea. We are being watched by women we know on here though so beware! I stand behind everything I have ever posted on here, no denying that fact, but just know that women live to create drama. this wasn't a girl I ever dated, or was even friends with. she is just a girl that knows me and loves to talk about people behind their back. I made a screen shot of the message but not sure how to post it on here.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'm being stalked on here
- Thread starter Robert28
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Upside
Senior Don Juan
Password protect your ****. Delete your browser history. Don't use this site in public. Etc.
Really, it's not a big deal. The thing is though, this girl sees through you like an open book now and is letting all her friends who know you in on it as well. Whatever actions you take or whatever words you say are being dictated by the philosophy of "game" and others who give you advice about it and she won't believe that you are being genuine. She will think you are full of **** and deservedly so. Chicks like to **** test because it reveals the true personality of a guy she is with/knows. She didn't have to **** test to know if you were genuine or not, your post history through her eyes spoke for yourself.
Really, it's not a big deal. The thing is though, this girl sees through you like an open book now and is letting all her friends who know you in on it as well. Whatever actions you take or whatever words you say are being dictated by the philosophy of "game" and others who give you advice about it and she won't believe that you are being genuine. She will think you are full of **** and deservedly so. Chicks like to **** test because it reveals the true personality of a guy she is with/knows. She didn't have to **** test to know if you were genuine or not, your post history through her eyes spoke for yourself.
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Hey dude, websites like this are no different than women reading Cosmo to learn how to appeal to the male side of this dating game. Websites like this inspire people to improve their lives and change their circumstances, and it's quite noble, since most guys are so wrapped up in their ego (especially around the area of success with women) that they wouldn't even consider the thought.
So let her do what she wants. Stuff like this is probably super interesting to her anyway, if you talked to her about it you may even find yourself with a new pivot/wing girl, if she's cool. Or if you're cool. It's the nature of women to talk about stuff like this.
So let her do what she wants. Stuff like this is probably super interesting to her anyway, if you talked to her about it you may even find yourself with a new pivot/wing girl, if she's cool. Or if you're cool. It's the nature of women to talk about stuff like this.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Sign up for a new username that is something more anonymous.
Seriously, was it that hard to figure out a way around that???
Seriously, was it that hard to figure out a way around that???
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.