Today I was informed that there is a girl stalking my posts on here and running back to facebook to tell other girls on my friends list about the stuff I post here. How she found this site, or me for that matter, I have no idea. We are being watched by women we know on here though so beware! I stand behind everything I have ever posted on here, no denying that fact, but just know that women live to create drama. this wasn't a girl I ever dated, or was even friends with. she is just a girl that knows me and loves to talk about people behind their back. I made a screen shot of the message but not sure how to post it on here.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm being stalked on here
- Thread starter Robert28
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Upside
Senior Don Juan
Password protect your ****. Delete your browser history. Don't use this site in public. Etc.
Really, it's not a big deal. The thing is though, this girl sees through you like an open book now and is letting all her friends who know you in on it as well. Whatever actions you take or whatever words you say are being dictated by the philosophy of "game" and others who give you advice about it and she won't believe that you are being genuine. She will think you are full of **** and deservedly so. Chicks like to **** test because it reveals the true personality of a guy she is with/knows. She didn't have to **** test to know if you were genuine or not, your post history through her eyes spoke for yourself.
Really, it's not a big deal. The thing is though, this girl sees through you like an open book now and is letting all her friends who know you in on it as well. Whatever actions you take or whatever words you say are being dictated by the philosophy of "game" and others who give you advice about it and she won't believe that you are being genuine. She will think you are full of **** and deservedly so. Chicks like to **** test because it reveals the true personality of a guy she is with/knows. She didn't have to **** test to know if you were genuine or not, your post history through her eyes spoke for yourself.
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Hey dude, websites like this are no different than women reading Cosmo to learn how to appeal to the male side of this dating game. Websites like this inspire people to improve their lives and change their circumstances, and it's quite noble, since most guys are so wrapped up in their ego (especially around the area of success with women) that they wouldn't even consider the thought.
So let her do what she wants. Stuff like this is probably super interesting to her anyway, if you talked to her about it you may even find yourself with a new pivot/wing girl, if she's cool. Or if you're cool. It's the nature of women to talk about stuff like this.
So let her do what she wants. Stuff like this is probably super interesting to her anyway, if you talked to her about it you may even find yourself with a new pivot/wing girl, if she's cool. Or if you're cool. It's the nature of women to talk about stuff like this.
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Master Don Juan
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Seriously, was it that hard to figure out a way around that???
Seriously, was it that hard to figure out a way around that???
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.