At first she was the one demanding everything, a really great, beautiful girl. Now, somehow, things have flipped entirely. She was initially the needy one. However, her delicate emotions quickly made me feel guilty. So I foolishly ended up putting in the effort because I liked her.
My best guess as to identifying what the hell happened is that the previously mentioned exertion caused me to become emotionally involved which, in turn, nurtured fragmented AFCness. Cognitive dissonance is a hideous, revolting concept. I can see myself becoming needy, servile even. I’m expecting phone calls, looking for affirmation; I can’t even tease her properly.
1. Don't let this happen to you.
2. How can I be helped?
I can't just stop talking to her, she'll be hurt, and I really don't want that. Unfortunately, she's also a mess of circumstantial problems that I loathe dealing with. I just can't find a balance with this one. Becoming emotionally involved won't end well, that much is obvious. So how can I ultimately be with her but like her less? In other words, I need an easy way to decrease partiality.
Yeah, I know that sounds bizarre. She’s pretty much perfect though, so I’m going to need an independent solution, think along the lines of How Not to be a Bithc, For Dummies.
My best guess as to identifying what the hell happened is that the previously mentioned exertion caused me to become emotionally involved which, in turn, nurtured fragmented AFCness. Cognitive dissonance is a hideous, revolting concept. I can see myself becoming needy, servile even. I’m expecting phone calls, looking for affirmation; I can’t even tease her properly.
1. Don't let this happen to you.
2. How can I be helped?
I can't just stop talking to her, she'll be hurt, and I really don't want that. Unfortunately, she's also a mess of circumstantial problems that I loathe dealing with. I just can't find a balance with this one. Becoming emotionally involved won't end well, that much is obvious. So how can I ultimately be with her but like her less? In other words, I need an easy way to decrease partiality.
Yeah, I know that sounds bizarre. She’s pretty much perfect though, so I’m going to need an independent solution, think along the lines of How Not to be a Bithc, For Dummies.
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