"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm back

LuisGarcia10

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And I feel like an idiot.

About a year and a half ago I joined this forum and started on my self-improvement program. Within about two weeks I was approaching girls, getting numbers and having girls, some of whom had boyfreinds, literally all over me.

Two weeks that took, and it carried on improving and I carried on getting better clothes, looking better, more confident etc etc.

Then, I just lost interest.

Put back on a fair bit of weight, nothing too much but it's noticable. I stopped paying a massive amount of attention to my looks and just lost interest in pulling women.

Then it suddenly hit me, I'm 18 and I should be pulling girls left, right and centre, but I'm not. Other guys are because other guys can be arsed to go out and do it.

So I'm back and I'm going to go through it all again and get back to and better than I was.

But basically, as you may have guessed, I'm not the most motivated of people and it takes a lot sometimes to make me do something like this and stick to it.

So I'm setting myself targets, only small targets but targets none the less, and these targets are going to increase gradually. I'm in the fortunate position of not wanting a girlfreind because I'm moving away next year, so I can get with as many girls as I like and it won't be a problem.

Right then, first target, I'm going clubbing on Saturday night, the paticular club is full of women, very attractive women.

I want to make some approaches like I used to and obviously I hope to have some success although that's not the most important thing yet.

I'll be back on here to post how it went and how naturally it came.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mroriginal

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to luis, sorry about that

to purple pimp


ROTFLMAO!!! BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA!!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: LOL!!
 

superchristx

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I have a very short list of idiots who currently post on this board, and should be ignored. mroriginal is one of them.

anyway, OP, if you were making progress then getting back on these baords is probably not the best thing for you, unless you're ONLY using them to post your progress. Definitely don't read anything, it will waste your time and prolly make you FATTER.

Good luck, you haven't lost any time at all. I don't know why you would have lost interest, except that you might be making too big of a deal out of your field work. Going to clubs that you wouldn't normally go to, and spending the whole time doing PUA. emotionally draining this will be, it is much easier to incorporate PUA into your daily life than build life around PUA.
 
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