"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm back

LuisGarcia10

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And I feel like an idiot.

About a year and a half ago I joined this forum and started on my self-improvement program. Within about two weeks I was approaching girls, getting numbers and having girls, some of whom had boyfreinds, literally all over me.

Two weeks that took, and it carried on improving and I carried on getting better clothes, looking better, more confident etc etc.

Then, I just lost interest.

Put back on a fair bit of weight, nothing too much but it's noticable. I stopped paying a massive amount of attention to my looks and just lost interest in pulling women.

Then it suddenly hit me, I'm 18 and I should be pulling girls left, right and centre, but I'm not. Other guys are because other guys can be arsed to go out and do it.

So I'm back and I'm going to go through it all again and get back to and better than I was.

But basically, as you may have guessed, I'm not the most motivated of people and it takes a lot sometimes to make me do something like this and stick to it.

So I'm setting myself targets, only small targets but targets none the less, and these targets are going to increase gradually. I'm in the fortunate position of not wanting a girlfreind because I'm moving away next year, so I can get with as many girls as I like and it won't be a problem.

Right then, first target, I'm going clubbing on Saturday night, the paticular club is full of women, very attractive women.

I want to make some approaches like I used to and obviously I hope to have some success although that's not the most important thing yet.

I'll be back on here to post how it went and how naturally it came.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mroriginal

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to luis, sorry about that

to purple pimp


ROTFLMAO!!! BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA!!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: LOL!!
 

superchristx

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I have a very short list of idiots who currently post on this board, and should be ignored. mroriginal is one of them.

anyway, OP, if you were making progress then getting back on these baords is probably not the best thing for you, unless you're ONLY using them to post your progress. Definitely don't read anything, it will waste your time and prolly make you FATTER.

Good luck, you haven't lost any time at all. I don't know why you would have lost interest, except that you might be making too big of a deal out of your field work. Going to clubs that you wouldn't normally go to, and spending the whole time doing PUA. emotionally draining this will be, it is much easier to incorporate PUA into your daily life than build life around PUA.
 
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