"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I know I wasn't gone for a very long time like I said I would be, but some of the responces to my farewell made some sense to me. I was spending too much time on the forum, but leaving all together was not the right solution. Besides, I was at a real low time in my life when I wrote that, and now I am better. Oh, and by the way, I didn't do this for attention at all, I could not have cared less if I got any responses, but thanks for the encouragement and advice to those that did.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Darn, I can't think of anything clever.
 
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Originally posted by MyNameIsTaken
You think your life's bad? I can't even approach a chick. I even had the best opportunity I've had so far today, and I still didn't take it.
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wtf is that supposed to mean?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by MyNameIsTaken
No idea, I just felt like saying that.
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message me on aim nubcake613 I think I could help you with your problem.
 
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don't worry teencraft, you have said plenty ofother clever comments in other posts. MYNAMEISTAKEN has posted before, so you can read his posts and see what he is all about. BTW, MYNAMEISTAKEN, have you gotten around to asking that special girl of yours out yet?
 
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Originally posted by wavejams007
don't worry teencraft, you have said plenty ofother clever comments in other posts. MYNAMEISTAKEN has posted before, so you can read his posts and see what he is all about. BTW, MYNAMEISTAKEN, have you gotten around to asking that special girl of yours out yet?
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Didn't you read my post? Of course I didn't! What do you think I am, some sort of DJ? :rolleyes:
 
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Originally posted by MyNameIsTaken
Didn't you read my post? Of course I didn't! What do you think I am, some sort of DJ? :rolleyes:
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I did read your post. It seems like you take almost pride in not asking her out, but to some extent, I understand you, cuz I sometimes get nervous to ask a girl that I really care about out, but then I do it and have not regrets.I realize you don't seem to be a DJ, but you could try and start being one if you want.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by MyNameIsTaken
You think your life's bad? I can't even approach a chick. I even had the best opportunity I've had so far today, and I still didn't take it.
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*b!tch slap*
 
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haha i knew you ouldnt leave. good thing you didnt. youve helped me a bunch since i joined the forums and i hope you continue to do so. thanx man. :( although i am gonna trie to get that family friend of mine.)
 
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