"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wavejams007

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I know I wasn't gone for a very long time like I said I would be, but some of the responces to my farewell made some sense to me. I was spending too much time on the forum, but leaving all together was not the right solution. Besides, I was at a real low time in my life when I wrote that, and now I am better. Oh, and by the way, I didn't do this for attention at all, I could not have cared less if I got any responses, but thanks for the encouragement and advice to those that did.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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teencraft

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Darn, I can't think of anything clever.
 

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Originally posted by MyNameIsTaken
You think your life's bad? I can't even approach a chick. I even had the best opportunity I've had so far today, and I still didn't take it.
wtf is that supposed to mean?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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teencraft

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Originally posted by MyNameIsTaken
No idea, I just felt like saying that.
message me on aim nubcake613 I think I could help you with your problem.
 

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don't worry teencraft, you have said plenty ofother clever comments in other posts. MYNAMEISTAKEN has posted before, so you can read his posts and see what he is all about. BTW, MYNAMEISTAKEN, have you gotten around to asking that special girl of yours out yet?
 

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Originally posted by wavejams007
don't worry teencraft, you have said plenty ofother clever comments in other posts. MYNAMEISTAKEN has posted before, so you can read his posts and see what he is all about. BTW, MYNAMEISTAKEN, have you gotten around to asking that special girl of yours out yet?
Didn't you read my post? Of course I didn't! What do you think I am, some sort of DJ? :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by MyNameIsTaken
Didn't you read my post? Of course I didn't! What do you think I am, some sort of DJ? :rolleyes:


I did read your post. It seems like you take almost pride in not asking her out, but to some extent, I understand you, cuz I sometimes get nervous to ask a girl that I really care about out, but then I do it and have not regrets.I realize you don't seem to be a DJ, but you could try and start being one if you want.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by MyNameIsTaken
You think your life's bad? I can't even approach a chick. I even had the best opportunity I've had so far today, and I still didn't take it.
*b!tch slap*
 
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haha i knew you ouldnt leave. good thing you didnt. youve helped me a bunch since i joined the forums and i hope you continue to do so. thanx man. :( although i am gonna trie to get that family friend of mine.)
 
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