"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hello, everyone. I used to visit this site religiously. With the knowledge I gained from this site I went from a very shy young man with no luck with women. Into a very well knowledge of how to seduce women, make women want you more than you want them, and the ability to take home at least 90% of the women I would talk to. (10% were already hooked up).
Now to fast forward with this knowledge I gained I met what I thought was the girl of my dreams, hot, well tempered, and also with a good head on her shoulders. That was 2.5 years ago. I am now single again becuase I begun to turn into an AFC as I got comfortable with her thinking that nothing would change becuase we planned on getting married and starting the big chapter of our life together. What I have learned over this last 2.5 years is that you can not fall back into an AFC way of thinking no matter how long.
There is a catch with this relationship and it is a big one............She is 24 years old and still a virgin, That was the challenge that I think kept me around for so long, too long. I have to admit I was in love with this girl, and I think that is going to be the hardest thing to change, even though I broke it off my mind has been in the same thought/with the same thought for a long time.
I have quickly read over the bible again, just as mainly a refresher course as I do still posess alot of the knowledge I had (i.e confidence, how I am the great catch although I do not want to be caught right now). What I was wondering though is if anyone knows where I could find some old posts on things to look for to tell if a girl is checking you out, since this is one of the things I havent had to look for for awhile, some of the rules like how long to wait to call, how long the initial convo should be before getting her number, stuff like this.
Just so you guys know that I havent lost it all, I went out this weekend and although I didnt get any numbers, although I was looking, I did make out with roughly 7 different girls all in the same dance club, had at least 3 that wanted me to go home with them, all in all it was a good night. I just walked around like I was the only man in that bar that every woman wanted, and they did notice it.
Any help with those past posts would be greatly appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Holy sh*t! We've been expecting you!
 

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Well I can honestly say that is nice to be back. I hopefully will have alot of good success stories to come.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You're right about the "AFC way of thinking"...it touches so much more in your life than just your ability to lay women. Even if you're secure in being with your girl, it doesn't mean you can just abandon your manhood. There's more to it than "getting" women.

Men used to be proud of being men for its own sake, not just of how much ass it got them.
 
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