"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm back

AFK Protector

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I'm back and thought I said almost a month ago that I wouldn't come back until I was happy, I didn't know how close I was to being happy. So now I'm satisfied with everything and hope I can help you guys and gals out.

Mods, if you ever catch my starting a thread b1tchign about stuff, ban me.

B1tching posts are fine though.

I hope everyone is doing fine today.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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welcome back. Happy you found what you are looking for
 

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What exactly were you looking for? Sorry if it has been said before. I'm just curious.
 

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I was looking for control. Control of my life. Now that school is over, I feel as if I didn't accomplish much. But the summer is a time for improvement. And I'm satisfied that I realize this to change for the better.

And I'm kind of combining different DJ theories to make the one which suits me best. Thanks baseball and ultima.
 
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MODS, ban him!!!!!:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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