"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm back and thought I said almost a month ago that I wouldn't come back until I was happy, I didn't know how close I was to being happy. So now I'm satisfied with everything and hope I can help you guys and gals out.

Mods, if you ever catch my starting a thread b1tchign about stuff, ban me.

B1tching posts are fine though.

I hope everyone is doing fine today.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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welcome back. Happy you found what you are looking for
 
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What exactly were you looking for? Sorry if it has been said before. I'm just curious.
 
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I was looking for control. Control of my life. Now that school is over, I feel as if I didn't accomplish much. But the summer is a time for improvement. And I'm satisfied that I realize this to change for the better.

And I'm kind of combining different DJ theories to make the one which suits me best. Thanks baseball and ultima.
 
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MODS, ban him!!!!!:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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