"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm back and thought I said almost a month ago that I wouldn't come back until I was happy, I didn't know how close I was to being happy. So now I'm satisfied with everything and hope I can help you guys and gals out.

Mods, if you ever catch my starting a thread b1tchign about stuff, ban me.

B1tching posts are fine though.

I hope everyone is doing fine today.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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welcome back. Happy you found what you are looking for
 
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What exactly were you looking for? Sorry if it has been said before. I'm just curious.
 
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I was looking for control. Control of my life. Now that school is over, I feel as if I didn't accomplish much. But the summer is a time for improvement. And I'm satisfied that I realize this to change for the better.

And I'm kind of combining different DJ theories to make the one which suits me best. Thanks baseball and ultima.
 
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MODS, ban him!!!!!:D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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