"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm back!!!!!!

The Bad Ass Canadian

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So, I'm not sure how many of the old crew are still kicking around these parts and considering I'm now 31 yrs old, I will probably be posting in the Mature Man's forum, but I just had to drop in to say hi to all the legacy DJs kicking around.

I am splitting up with my live-in girl after almost 4 years of great fun and gonna brush up on my skills around here and hopefully help out some of the young dudes.

Bittersweet that the LTR is done, cuz she's great and hot as hell, but I'm feeling like getting back out and having some single man's fun.

Any old guys that remember me, around?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
So, I'm not sure how many of the old crew are still kicking around these parts and considering I'm now 31 yrs old, I will probably be posting in the Mature Man's forum, but I just had to drop in to say hi to all the old guys and legacy DJs kicking around.

I amdsplitting with my live-in girl after almost 4 years of great fun and gonna brush up on my skills around here and hopefully help out some of the young dudes.

Bittersweet that the LR is done, cuz she's great and hot as hell, but I'm feeling like getting back out and having some single man's fun.

Any old guys that remember me, around?
Actually I remember you. I'm not a bigtime poster, but I've been around here for years.

Welcome back. It's nice to see some of the oldheads checking in.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Hey Ice,

good to see ya.

Gonna be a weird transition and it's been a bit painful but cool in the long run. I'm having problems wrapping my head around the concept of being single.

I'm "domesticated" for lack of a better word.

Even though we broke up on good terms and we're both cool with it (well, as good as we can be. These things are never easy), it's hard after living with a best friend/girlfriend for so long to suddenly try and switch gears and really look at other chicks without the boundaries of an exclusive relationship.

I'll be a good month or two getting back on my feet, game-wise, but I've learned a lot about relationships and can definitely lend an ear to anyone looking for or struggling with an LTR...

I'm not into the PUA b.s.... that sh!t is too one dimensional, for me, now. Did it for a while but it lost its charm.
 
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