"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So, I'm not sure how many of the old crew are still kicking around these parts and considering I'm now 31 yrs old, I will probably be posting in the Mature Man's forum, but I just had to drop in to say hi to all the legacy DJs kicking around.

I am splitting up with my live-in girl after almost 4 years of great fun and gonna brush up on my skills around here and hopefully help out some of the young dudes.

Bittersweet that the LTR is done, cuz she's great and hot as hell, but I'm feeling like getting back out and having some single man's fun.

Any old guys that remember me, around?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
So, I'm not sure how many of the old crew are still kicking around these parts and considering I'm now 31 yrs old, I will probably be posting in the Mature Man's forum, but I just had to drop in to say hi to all the old guys and legacy DJs kicking around.

I amdsplitting with my live-in girl after almost 4 years of great fun and gonna brush up on my skills around here and hopefully help out some of the young dudes.

Bittersweet that the LR is done, cuz she's great and hot as hell, but I'm feeling like getting back out and having some single man's fun.

Any old guys that remember me, around?
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Actually I remember you. I'm not a bigtime poster, but I've been around here for years.

Welcome back. It's nice to see some of the oldheads checking in.
 
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Hey Ice,

good to see ya.

Gonna be a weird transition and it's been a bit painful but cool in the long run. I'm having problems wrapping my head around the concept of being single.

I'm "domesticated" for lack of a better word.

Even though we broke up on good terms and we're both cool with it (well, as good as we can be. These things are never easy), it's hard after living with a best friend/girlfriend for so long to suddenly try and switch gears and really look at other chicks without the boundaries of an exclusive relationship.

I'll be a good month or two getting back on my feet, game-wise, but I've learned a lot about relationships and can definitely lend an ear to anyone looking for or struggling with an LTR...

I'm not into the PUA b.s.... that sh!t is too one dimensional, for me, now. Did it for a while but it lost its charm.
 
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