"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tomatoes

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Well its been a while but im back...

Alot of new faces. Aint seen alot of old ones yet but im sure you guys are around.

Decided to come back to SS for abit.

Why?

Well i came here to become DJ last year and I succeeded that this year. Im confident in pulling and know all the techniques. However i was at work in my reasonably new job and i heard one of the guys was a right player. I took it with a pince of salt.....its not like i aint heard that **** before.

However a HB10 came in today and started talking with him. She complained in a friendly way that he never calls her these days. She didnt seem the clingy type before you guys jump the gun. Anyways he didnt seem phased by her. I didnt belive him at first then he showed me his ex who is HB10 too.

This is when i realised one thing....im ****ing around with HB7s. This guy has a HB10 when he wants....all the time.....Made me realise. I aint peaked. No way. I need to AIM HIGHER. I need to further improve. Im out the AFC days but im not happy with HB7 DJ. I want HB10 PUA. So.....thought i might pop back here for a while. See if there is anything you guys can teach since i left.

Oh and i will drop abit of guidence to you 85% AFCs while im here ;)



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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Welcome back Tomatoes!
 
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Welcome back Tomatoes for phase II of PUAism.
 
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Well, I'm glad you're back even though I have no idea who you are. I hope you reach your goal, and I hope you drop a hint of advice to some of the newer guys like me. Welcome back.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hi man, i remember the name, top poster, great advice and well done on the score of HB7 league, reason why most are here to improve there game.

Good to see a great poster back here.
 
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