"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well its been a while but im back...

Alot of new faces. Aint seen alot of old ones yet but im sure you guys are around.

Decided to come back to SS for abit.

Why?

Well i came here to become DJ last year and I succeeded that this year. Im confident in pulling and know all the techniques. However i was at work in my reasonably new job and i heard one of the guys was a right player. I took it with a pince of salt.....its not like i aint heard that **** before.

However a HB10 came in today and started talking with him. She complained in a friendly way that he never calls her these days. She didnt seem the clingy type before you guys jump the gun. Anyways he didnt seem phased by her. I didnt belive him at first then he showed me his ex who is HB10 too.

This is when i realised one thing....im ****ing around with HB7s. This guy has a HB10 when he wants....all the time.....Made me realise. I aint peaked. No way. I need to AIM HIGHER. I need to further improve. Im out the AFC days but im not happy with HB7 DJ. I want HB10 PUA. So.....thought i might pop back here for a while. See if there is anything you guys can teach since i left.

Oh and i will drop abit of guidence to you 85% AFCs while im here ;)



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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Welcome back Tomatoes!
 
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Welcome back Tomatoes for phase II of PUAism.
 
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Well, I'm glad you're back even though I have no idea who you are. I hope you reach your goal, and I hope you drop a hint of advice to some of the newer guys like me. Welcome back.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hi man, i remember the name, top poster, great advice and well done on the score of HB7 league, reason why most are here to improve there game.

Good to see a great poster back here.
 
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