TheTrimReaper
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Hey all. You might remember me from a few years ago. I was in an LTR with an HB, who I got utilizing my eroded-as-you-will-soon-see DJ skills, but it ended a few months ago. A correlation?
Now I'm trying to get my back on track. My skills are gone, believe me! So I'm gonna be seeking advice from you guys for a bit.
The new girl:
I met her at work. Sunday night we went out on an "action date"-our third date counting my first lunch invitation.
She informed me she would be back at the office on Monday and Tuesday. I think "not the best situation" for an out-of-practice Trim, but what could I do?
So on Monday, she invites me out to lunch. It's good. I tease her a bit. Sympathize a bit. It ended well enough. Kissed good bye.
Then on Tuesday, things seemed tougher. I felt strange seeing her a third day straight, so I tried to not be around. However, there was a work meeting, so I had to be there. She ended up being there, too.
Now my questions to you.
From what you've read, did I f**ck up? And what, if not everything, did I do wrong.
She hasn't called back. What is your take on it? She got the job and is busy? She is s**t testing me? Did I come across as disrespectful and turn her off? She initiated the last date and paid, so is she testing my interest to see if I call regardless of her words?
What should I do at this point? Call back? Wait (I'm guessing forever) for her call? Call back (and probably get the answering machine) bring up my comment and tell her how that totally came out wrong and seemed disrespectful and/or pining, then pine for another date on the machine?
Thanks ahead for your help and don't worry about being gentle (cause I know you won't!)
Now I'm trying to get my back on track. My skills are gone, believe me! So I'm gonna be seeking advice from you guys for a bit.
The new girl:
I met her at work. Sunday night we went out on an "action date"-our third date counting my first lunch invitation.
She informed me she would be back at the office on Monday and Tuesday. I think "not the best situation" for an out-of-practice Trim, but what could I do?
So on Monday, she invites me out to lunch. It's good. I tease her a bit. Sympathize a bit. It ended well enough. Kissed good bye.
Then on Tuesday, things seemed tougher. I felt strange seeing her a third day straight, so I tried to not be around. However, there was a work meeting, so I had to be there. She ended up being there, too.
Now my questions to you.
From what you've read, did I f**ck up? And what, if not everything, did I do wrong.
She hasn't called back. What is your take on it? She got the job and is busy? She is s**t testing me? Did I come across as disrespectful and turn her off? She initiated the last date and paid, so is she testing my interest to see if I call regardless of her words?
What should I do at this point? Call back? Wait (I'm guessing forever) for her call? Call back (and probably get the answering machine) bring up my comment and tell her how that totally came out wrong and seemed disrespectful and/or pining, then pine for another date on the machine?
Thanks ahead for your help and don't worry about being gentle (cause I know you won't!)
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