"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm back!! haha

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Was wondering what you guys thought of this. I met this chick on myspace that I've seen in my store before and have been talking to her for a couple of days on myspace. She's recently divorced and is 33 yrs old. Well yesterday i ask her what she's doin sat night. She says she has no plans and tells me she's going out with some girls and gives me her phone# and tells me to call her so we can meet up. So last night i text her and ask her where she's at and she tells me at some local place (small town) so I tell her I'll try and make it up there. But for one, I didn't have a wingy cause he bailed on me and two, I really didn't feel like walking in there by myself.

But then she sends me a text that says: "I have a guy friend with me from Panama. He doesn't know anyone. I would like to go out w ya when I'm alone. If u want. I wouldn't mind seeing u."

Not sure what that means?? I texted her back and told her that was fine, maybe we can do lunch next week. She texted me back,.."Sounds GREAT!! Call me"

What do u guys think. Should I pursue??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PTC said:
What do u guys think. Should I pursue??
Absolutely, she seems open to the idea of meeting you just one on one which is always a good thing.

Although the "male friend from Panama who doesn't know anyone but her" kinda strike me as an odd ball story. But whatever, it hasn't been a problem yet.
 

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DJDamage said:
Absolutely, she seems open to the idea of meeting you just one on one which is always a good thing.

Although the "male friend from Panama who doesn't know anyone but her" kinda strike me as an odd ball story. But whatever, it hasn't been a problem yet.

Well shes a realtor and I think she was just babysitting. She's ben kinda flirty in her myspace messages and has been telling me all about herself. I'm gonna call her fvck it. She pretty hot, at least an 8 or a 9 in my eyes!!Now if i can just remember that red flag list! :nervous:
 
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