"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Was wondering what you guys thought of this. I met this chick on myspace that I've seen in my store before and have been talking to her for a couple of days on myspace. She's recently divorced and is 33 yrs old. Well yesterday i ask her what she's doin sat night. She says she has no plans and tells me she's going out with some girls and gives me her phone# and tells me to call her so we can meet up. So last night i text her and ask her where she's at and she tells me at some local place (small town) so I tell her I'll try and make it up there. But for one, I didn't have a wingy cause he bailed on me and two, I really didn't feel like walking in there by myself.

But then she sends me a text that says: "I have a guy friend with me from Panama. He doesn't know anyone. I would like to go out w ya when I'm alone. If u want. I wouldn't mind seeing u."

Not sure what that means?? I texted her back and told her that was fine, maybe we can do lunch next week. She texted me back,.."Sounds GREAT!! Call me"

What do u guys think. Should I pursue??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PTC said:
What do u guys think. Should I pursue??
Absolutely, she seems open to the idea of meeting you just one on one which is always a good thing.

Although the "male friend from Panama who doesn't know anyone but her" kinda strike me as an odd ball story. But whatever, it hasn't been a problem yet.
 

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DJDamage said:
Absolutely, she seems open to the idea of meeting you just one on one which is always a good thing.

Although the "male friend from Panama who doesn't know anyone but her" kinda strike me as an odd ball story. But whatever, it hasn't been a problem yet.

Well shes a realtor and I think she was just babysitting. She's ben kinda flirty in her myspace messages and has been telling me all about herself. I'm gonna call her fvck it. She pretty hot, at least an 8 or a 9 in my eyes!!Now if i can just remember that red flag list! :nervous:
 
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