"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm baaaaaaaaaaack, and I made up my mind!

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I have thought about it for a few moments (dunno why I even spent that much time on this!) and I came to the conclusion that I'm gonna forget about that whole HB + her friend and me hang out. One of the DJ's in the forum suggested I move on, because I got plenty of time and plenty of ladies to go through; I'm only in high school! (Senior! Gonna graduate REAL soon:D )

I am kicking myself over why I even wasted mental energy on a girl who has low IL in me.


If it's one primary thing I learned, is that Kino is freakingly freakin' useful. I got her # on the first time I met her by using C&F AND Kino, and damn it, they're one heck of a killer combo. I feel kinda bad when my apprentices:p think that touching the girl will be really awkward, or she'll hate it. They won't listen to me! Kino works yet they cry about how its too early to be touching, invading her private space...garbage

did i mention that Kino is freakingly freakin' useful?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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and you are? Who exactly?
 

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jsut cause he isnt known on the forums means nothing.
unless of course he gives sh!tty advice.
but is correct. Kino is amazing.
Kino+CnF..best combo ever.
its also the best feeling in the world when SHE ups the level of kino. liek when this girl i've been gamin walked by me today n grabbed my ass.

..jsut gotta wait til dec 12th..the day her 19 yrold bf goes to jail. lol.
 

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Originally posted by Patrick124
jsut cause he isnt known on the forums means nothing.
unless of course he gives sh!tty advice.
The only reason that I asked this is because he is making a big deal about it like he is an old-school poster. I was wondering if he had alternate screen names.

comic_relief
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by comic_relief
The only reason that I asked this is because he is making a big deal about it like he is an old-school poster. I was wondering if he had alternate screen names.

comic_relief

Do you have something against people expresing theyr oppinion??

Maybe you should just try to see why you have this attitude. Dont blame me for your problems and your failures, because that will not help you in becoming a DJ. I hope you understand that progres can be achieved by solving your problems.

Hope you dont have the same hostile attitude against me in the future. :up:
 

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i smell controversy over this!

hey comic,

I'm sort of new to the whole forum.

I only said "im baaaaaaaaack" because its been a while since i last posted up a thread about my previous issue.

so yeah!
This is kind of a new experience, because I haven't really moved on from a girl without even a first date, so I feel as though I accomplished something. I was tempted to go give the 2-on-1 date a shot but I felt I can spend my precious time more productively elsewhere, or on someone else :yawn:
 
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