"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm baaaaaaaaaaack, and I made up my mind!

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I have thought about it for a few moments (dunno why I even spent that much time on this!) and I came to the conclusion that I'm gonna forget about that whole HB + her friend and me hang out. One of the DJ's in the forum suggested I move on, because I got plenty of time and plenty of ladies to go through; I'm only in high school! (Senior! Gonna graduate REAL soon:D )

I am kicking myself over why I even wasted mental energy on a girl who has low IL in me.


If it's one primary thing I learned, is that Kino is freakingly freakin' useful. I got her # on the first time I met her by using C&F AND Kino, and damn it, they're one heck of a killer combo. I feel kinda bad when my apprentices:p think that touching the girl will be really awkward, or she'll hate it. They won't listen to me! Kino works yet they cry about how its too early to be touching, invading her private space...garbage

did i mention that Kino is freakingly freakin' useful?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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and you are? Who exactly?
 

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jsut cause he isnt known on the forums means nothing.
unless of course he gives sh!tty advice.
but is correct. Kino is amazing.
Kino+CnF..best combo ever.
its also the best feeling in the world when SHE ups the level of kino. liek when this girl i've been gamin walked by me today n grabbed my ass.

..jsut gotta wait til dec 12th..the day her 19 yrold bf goes to jail. lol.
 

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Originally posted by Patrick124
jsut cause he isnt known on the forums means nothing.
unless of course he gives sh!tty advice.
The only reason that I asked this is because he is making a big deal about it like he is an old-school poster. I was wondering if he had alternate screen names.

comic_relief
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by comic_relief
The only reason that I asked this is because he is making a big deal about it like he is an old-school poster. I was wondering if he had alternate screen names.

comic_relief

Do you have something against people expresing theyr oppinion??

Maybe you should just try to see why you have this attitude. Dont blame me for your problems and your failures, because that will not help you in becoming a DJ. I hope you understand that progres can be achieved by solving your problems.

Hope you dont have the same hostile attitude against me in the future. :up:
 

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i smell controversy over this!

hey comic,

I'm sort of new to the whole forum.

I only said "im baaaaaaaaack" because its been a while since i last posted up a thread about my previous issue.

so yeah!
This is kind of a new experience, because I haven't really moved on from a girl without even a first date, so I feel as though I accomplished something. I was tempted to go give the 2-on-1 date a shot but I felt I can spend my precious time more productively elsewhere, or on someone else :yawn:
 
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