"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alright, I'm an idiot. I just haven't worked any DJ on this girl.

I did well on our first date. I took her to lunch, we stayed a while... Had a great conversation, learned alot about one another.

Date 2 - Took her to an extremely nice restraunt where I continued to **** things up! I never failed to apologize for stupid things and I didn't help out our waiter when he knocked over a shelf of glasses (hard to explain.)

Well needless to say I did a ****ty job however I'm taking her out this thursday.

Any reccomendations and do you think that it's salvageable?

-Gary
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You are trying to hard kid!!! Relax!
 
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MilanoRedDC5 said:
Trying to hard...

This is all part of the game, isn't it?
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When we are too calculating in what we say we usually stumble --- and apologize too much because it didn't come out as planned! Just do a fun activity where talking and planning what to say is not the main activity! Then you go with the flow!!
 
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Easier said than done... None the less, you're right.

So thursday, six flags over TX. Some childish play if nothing else, do I invite her to the apt afterwards?

NOTE: I ****ed up royaly on the 2nd date. When I offered for her to come to my place I said, "I don't want this to come off as akward being that you barely know me, but we could head to my place." She replied with that's not akward that sounds great!

I just feel like I've screwed this all up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So did you take her to your place on the 2nd date or not? It sounds like things are working out fine, dont be too hard on yourself. Stop apoligizing for the little things, dont invalidate yourself either. She has to earn your respect and affection, remember that.

Spend a little time chatting with her on the phone, tell her about your plans to go to six flags and to take her with you. Tell her youre all about having an amazing time.
 
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Sounds good...

When should I call and follow up on thursdays date?

NOTE: Forgot to mention, I text msg'd her over the weekend and said, "Hey babe, I hope your weekend is going well!" She replied with, "It is, you too!."

Should I have refrained from texting her?
 
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MilanoRedDC5 said:
Some childish play if nothing else, do I invite her to the apt afterwards?
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Again, stop planning the future with her. Take it easy. If the mood's right, you'll know when to ask the right questions.
 
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Sounds like you are trying to impress her. She should be the one trying to impress you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey Bro, I would not pay too much for her attention before getting some Pu**y. If you do that to every girl you meet up with, you might end up having your account in red.
Good try though.
 
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Dude, chill out. It's just a girl. Just have fun together and take her home. Done deal.
 
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its all in your attitude!! if you have a laid back, confident attitude then you naturally will become the prize. just sit back and enjoy the girl by having fun with her and teasing her etc..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You've taken her to a really nice restaurant and now she gets to go to six flags ??


Sooo how was the pvssy ??


-Cod3r
 
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