"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm an idiot...

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Alright, I'm an idiot. I just haven't worked any DJ on this girl.

I did well on our first date. I took her to lunch, we stayed a while... Had a great conversation, learned alot about one another.

Date 2 - Took her to an extremely nice restraunt where I continued to **** things up! I never failed to apologize for stupid things and I didn't help out our waiter when he knocked over a shelf of glasses (hard to explain.)

Well needless to say I did a ****ty job however I'm taking her out this thursday.

Any reccomendations and do you think that it's salvageable?

-Gary
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You are trying to hard kid!!! Relax!
 
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MilanoRedDC5 said:
Trying to hard...

This is all part of the game, isn't it?
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When we are too calculating in what we say we usually stumble --- and apologize too much because it didn't come out as planned! Just do a fun activity where talking and planning what to say is not the main activity! Then you go with the flow!!
 
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Easier said than done... None the less, you're right.

So thursday, six flags over TX. Some childish play if nothing else, do I invite her to the apt afterwards?

NOTE: I ****ed up royaly on the 2nd date. When I offered for her to come to my place I said, "I don't want this to come off as akward being that you barely know me, but we could head to my place." She replied with that's not akward that sounds great!

I just feel like I've screwed this all up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So did you take her to your place on the 2nd date or not? It sounds like things are working out fine, dont be too hard on yourself. Stop apoligizing for the little things, dont invalidate yourself either. She has to earn your respect and affection, remember that.

Spend a little time chatting with her on the phone, tell her about your plans to go to six flags and to take her with you. Tell her youre all about having an amazing time.
 
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Sounds good...

When should I call and follow up on thursdays date?

NOTE: Forgot to mention, I text msg'd her over the weekend and said, "Hey babe, I hope your weekend is going well!" She replied with, "It is, you too!."

Should I have refrained from texting her?
 
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Some childish play if nothing else, do I invite her to the apt afterwards?
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Again, stop planning the future with her. Take it easy. If the mood's right, you'll know when to ask the right questions.
 
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Sounds like you are trying to impress her. She should be the one trying to impress you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hey Bro, I would not pay too much for her attention before getting some Pu**y. If you do that to every girl you meet up with, you might end up having your account in red.
Good try though.
 
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Dude, chill out. It's just a girl. Just have fun together and take her home. Done deal.
 
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its all in your attitude!! if you have a laid back, confident attitude then you naturally will become the prize. just sit back and enjoy the girl by having fun with her and teasing her etc..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You've taken her to a really nice restaurant and now she gets to go to six flags ??


Sooo how was the pvssy ??


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