Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Awhile back, I was getting serious interest from this girl that I had just met at a bar. Serious "f**k me" eyes. About 23, so fairly young. I'd talked to her a little here and there, but maybe played it too cool. So I asked for her number, but she wouldn't give me it, so I was like, "Next". I continued on like I didn't care. Saw her around the place whenever I went in, but she was acting in this completely aloof manner, like she wasn't interested.
Fast forward 3 weeks. I'm at this same bar, and she's making serious eye contact with me again. I'm caught off guard here, and a little drunk. So I'm getting ready to leave, because I'd decided I had 'nexted' her, and didn't want to pursue it after not gettin the Phone #. I had to be up early in the morning. I pay my tab, and I'm ready to walk out, and she catches me when I'm turning for the door, and asks if I wanted to go out for a drink with her that night. I was a little surprised to say the least. Unfortunately, I goofed up, played it a little too cool, and said I'd love to, but I had to be up for work early (which I did). I screwed up not asking for a raincheck or her phone number.
Fast forward 1 week. She's all cold again. I approach her, and ask her if she wanted to go get a drink up the road, just her and me, an almost exact reversal of the situation. Well. She answered me with a "no thanks", with total hostility, totally *****y with me. I said, "Are you sure, I feel bad that I couldn't join you last week when you asked, so I'd like to make it up to you." She answers with real hostility and anger in her voice, "NO THANK YOU, I DON'T THINK SO." So I just shrugged and said alright and left.
WTF? Should I just brush this flake aside, I mean why all the anger? What could've happened in one week that would turn her like this? Is this like that old adage, "There's nothing quite like a woman scorned?" Should I try to DJ this one? Because, frankly, I'm intrigued. And if so, how? Any suggestions?
Fast forward 3 weeks. I'm at this same bar, and she's making serious eye contact with me again. I'm caught off guard here, and a little drunk. So I'm getting ready to leave, because I'd decided I had 'nexted' her, and didn't want to pursue it after not gettin the Phone #. I had to be up early in the morning. I pay my tab, and I'm ready to walk out, and she catches me when I'm turning for the door, and asks if I wanted to go out for a drink with her that night. I was a little surprised to say the least. Unfortunately, I goofed up, played it a little too cool, and said I'd love to, but I had to be up for work early (which I did). I screwed up not asking for a raincheck or her phone number.
Fast forward 1 week. She's all cold again. I approach her, and ask her if she wanted to go get a drink up the road, just her and me, an almost exact reversal of the situation. Well. She answered me with a "no thanks", with total hostility, totally *****y with me. I said, "Are you sure, I feel bad that I couldn't join you last week when you asked, so I'd like to make it up to you." She answers with real hostility and anger in her voice, "NO THANK YOU, I DON'T THINK SO." So I just shrugged and said alright and left.
WTF? Should I just brush this flake aside, I mean why all the anger? What could've happened in one week that would turn her like this? Is this like that old adage, "There's nothing quite like a woman scorned?" Should I try to DJ this one? Because, frankly, I'm intrigued. And if so, how? Any suggestions?