"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm an AFC.. I want to learn the ways of a DJ and live them

TizZle

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Hi... I'm an AFC that is going to try to learn the ways of a DJ. I know it will take a long time to become good but It will be very beneficial to me. I'm currently reading the new DJ bible and picking up on some of the things ive been doing wrong.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Evil-Rom

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hey thats great thanks for the update
 

Dukester

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ok, thanks for the useless post.
I suggest reading the bible, and trying BC.

Dont post a thread like this one again though dude- think about it, how stupid is that. Do we really care that you are gonna TRY and be a DJ now? No, not really.

Post your successes, and provide us w/ a history of how much you suck- so we can judge if you're doing the right thing.
 

Ice Cold

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WTF is with the discouraging comments?

The guy is determined and the world has to know. Have you ever wanted something really bad and it was a major quest for you? He needs to share... don't fukkin flame him for that... just ignore...

You're doing good dude. Read the bible and change your life.
 
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