Hi... I'm an AFC that is going to try to learn the ways of a DJ. I know it will take a long time to become good but It will be very beneficial to me. I'm currently reading the new DJ bible and picking up on some of the things ive been doing wrong.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.