"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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im afraid..

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to tell you the truth, im afraid of this girl,
met her like, 1.5 weeks ago, and shes trying to rebound me, bringing her ex in so i simply told her " i dunno im not a shrink" so she gave me this confused look then proceeded with a "anyways" and continued.. i waited till she was done and i was like "so how was your day" then she got the message, and like, shes the type of chick you're not really interested in you know what i mean? shes just there, and you could give a **** if shes interested or not.

so shes trying to rebound me which is great cuz all i wannt is get in and get out quick. no strings, but the thing IS!

shes gettin emotional. BAbe, this, Babe that, COme talk to me, blowing up my phone.. leavin messages.. ****, and i told her blunty i dont want a relationship. and shes showing MAD jelously as i bring up other girls :p
im cool with getting in and out and i told her my actions, clearly, im not interested in a relationship.

but the thing is, i got her to cab it to my house on monday where i shall fuk the **** out of her.
and shes gonna cab it back home. but im afraid shes those stalker/krazy ho type of girls

the last thing is i need is to get a ***** off my dik you know?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Unhuh got yourself a loonie...good job and good luck. Maybe next time you won't over look the crazy for the vagina. Lol, we've all been there (well I have atleast) it's a learning process for sure...
 
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WaRpEd said:
Unhuh got yourself a loonie...good job and good luck. Maybe next time you won't over look the crazy for the vagina. Lol, we've all been there (well I have atleast) it's a learning process for sure...
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H:woo:

His just bragging, his so excited that he grabbed himself a freak with no strings attached, but now she's attached and his freaked out hahahaha.
 
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Just say

'Sweetheart... less talk... more take your clothes off.'
 
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ZenGodMod said:
H:woo:

His just bragging, his so excited that he grabbed himself a freak with no strings attached, but now she's attached and his freaked out hahahaha.
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lol no im not bragging, shes soo fking clingy!

over a week, will she wear off? or become worse and bust out the "i love you" sh1t?

some scary ****!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sexy_kuta said:
lol no im not bragging, shes soo fking clingy!

over a week, will she wear off? or become worse and bust out the "i love you" sh1t?

some scary ****!
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Hmm realized i didn't offer you any advice on this "little" situation.

Here:

Your waiting for the bomb to blow and take you out. Your scared of kaboom!!! Why are you not trying to diffuse the bomb? Your scared of something that hasn't happened. You fear what doesn't exist and because it doesn't exist (only in your mind) you have the greatest opportunity to make sure your fears don't come true.

You obviously know what to do, but you also fear that.

So get up and shut her down.
 
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ZenGodMod said:
Hmm realized i didn't offer you any advice on this "little" situation.

Here:

Your waiting for the bomb to blow and take you out. Your scared of kaboom!!! Why are you not trying to diffuse the bomb? Your scared of something that hasn't happened. You fear what doesn't exist and because it doesn't exist (only in your mind) you have the greatest opportunity to make sure your fears don't come true.

You obviously know what to do, but you also fear that.

So get up and shut her down.
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didnt see it like that, thanks man
 
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