"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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im afraid..

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to tell you the truth, im afraid of this girl,
met her like, 1.5 weeks ago, and shes trying to rebound me, bringing her ex in so i simply told her " i dunno im not a shrink" so she gave me this confused look then proceeded with a "anyways" and continued.. i waited till she was done and i was like "so how was your day" then she got the message, and like, shes the type of chick you're not really interested in you know what i mean? shes just there, and you could give a **** if shes interested or not.

so shes trying to rebound me which is great cuz all i wannt is get in and get out quick. no strings, but the thing IS!

shes gettin emotional. BAbe, this, Babe that, COme talk to me, blowing up my phone.. leavin messages.. ****, and i told her blunty i dont want a relationship. and shes showing MAD jelously as i bring up other girls :p
im cool with getting in and out and i told her my actions, clearly, im not interested in a relationship.

but the thing is, i got her to cab it to my house on monday where i shall fuk the **** out of her.
and shes gonna cab it back home. but im afraid shes those stalker/krazy ho type of girls

the last thing is i need is to get a ***** off my dik you know?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Unhuh got yourself a loonie...good job and good luck. Maybe next time you won't over look the crazy for the vagina. Lol, we've all been there (well I have atleast) it's a learning process for sure...
 
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WaRpEd said:
Unhuh got yourself a loonie...good job and good luck. Maybe next time you won't over look the crazy for the vagina. Lol, we've all been there (well I have atleast) it's a learning process for sure...
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H:woo:

His just bragging, his so excited that he grabbed himself a freak with no strings attached, but now she's attached and his freaked out hahahaha.
 
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Just say

'Sweetheart... less talk... more take your clothes off.'
 
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ZenGodMod said:
H:woo:

His just bragging, his so excited that he grabbed himself a freak with no strings attached, but now she's attached and his freaked out hahahaha.
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lol no im not bragging, shes soo fking clingy!

over a week, will she wear off? or become worse and bust out the "i love you" sh1t?

some scary ****!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sexy_kuta said:
lol no im not bragging, shes soo fking clingy!

over a week, will she wear off? or become worse and bust out the "i love you" sh1t?

some scary ****!
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Hmm realized i didn't offer you any advice on this "little" situation.

Here:

Your waiting for the bomb to blow and take you out. Your scared of kaboom!!! Why are you not trying to diffuse the bomb? Your scared of something that hasn't happened. You fear what doesn't exist and because it doesn't exist (only in your mind) you have the greatest opportunity to make sure your fears don't come true.

You obviously know what to do, but you also fear that.

So get up and shut her down.
 
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ZenGodMod said:
Hmm realized i didn't offer you any advice on this "little" situation.

Here:

Your waiting for the bomb to blow and take you out. Your scared of kaboom!!! Why are you not trying to diffuse the bomb? Your scared of something that hasn't happened. You fear what doesn't exist and because it doesn't exist (only in your mind) you have the greatest opportunity to make sure your fears don't come true.

You obviously know what to do, but you also fear that.

So get up and shut her down.
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didnt see it like that, thanks man
 
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