I'm afraid to have a relationship with someone because of my inexperience.

[corrector]

I had my first love at 36, got married to someone else at 39.....and write cringe threads at 48. Who cares about age dude.

 

[BPH]

Stop with the excuses. Your reasoning is straight up bullsh!t. Pardon the language.

Welcome to the club. I feel like every time I check this forum I see a new thread by this guy asking the same questions.

 

[nelysses]

Stop with the excuses. Your reasoning is straight up bullsh!t. Pardon the language.

Excuse ? Reallay man?
Im just talking about feelig late for that things. I didn't say that I cannot do these things etc.. I just asked for a shortcut.
By the way, please excuse my English if I'm making mistakes. I live in Turkey and don't know good.

 

[BPH]

Excuse ? Reallay man?
Im just talking about feelig late for that things. I didn't say that I cannot do these things etc.. I just asked for a shortcut.
By the way, please excuse my English if I'm making mistakes. I live in Turkey and don't know good.

Dude...go out and make mistakes, then learn from them. Here's an analogy.

This is you:

"I want to be buff and in shape."
Then go to the gym.
"I can't, I don't have time and don't know what I'm doing."
Well sh** I guess you don't really want to get buff then...

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Excuse ? Reallay man?
Im just talking about feelig late for that things. I didn't say that I cannot do these things etc.. I just asked for a shortcut.
By the way, please excuse my English if I'm making mistakes. I live in Turkey and don't know good.

There are no shortcuts for anything worth doing in life.

Aren't you studying to be a doctor?

Do they just let you read a book or two and then let you become a doctor? Hell no...you have to go through years of schooling, do clinicals, residencies, etc before you pass.

Same thing with women. You have to put in the work. If you aren't willing to do that then you aren't going to improve at all and will just keep spinning your wheels.

As my father used to tell me growing up:
"Bin nasihatten bir musibet yeğdir."

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

There are no shortcuts for anything worth doing in life.

Aren't you studying to be a doctor?

Do they just let you read a book or two and then let you become a doctor? Hell no...you have to go through years of schooling, do clinicals, residencies, etc before you pass.

Same thing with women. You have to put in the work. If you aren't willing to do that then you aren't going to improve at all and will just keep spinning your wheels.

As my father used to tell me growing up:
"Bin nasihatten bir musibet yeğdir."

reminds me of a comment that angered me a lot, because on guy said "at least the road of doing work has rewards", yeah, because i like to think, that is mainly true for guys, men.

Other comments i read: " But yes, you have to put in the work. Fortunately, even that is very rewarding and satisfying, since men are wired to enjoy striving and building.

"expecting to not have to put effort into anything and get rewarded is just pure delusion."

Once again, mainly true for men more than women though. Yes, i'm completely aware that women do put in effort or work when it comes to working on their appearance, fitness, body, but effort or work when it comes to actually trying to get a date or set up a date, form or establish a relationship, that is normally or obviously on the mans shoulders.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

reminds me of a comment that angered me a lot, because on guy said "at least the road of doing work has rewards", yeah, because i like to think, that is mainly true for guys, men.

Other comments i read: " But yes, you have to put in the work. Fortunately, even that is very rewarding and satisfying, since men are wired to enjoy striving and building.

"expecting to not have to put effort into anything and get rewarded is just pure delusion."

Once again, mainly true for men more than women though. Yes, i'm completely aware that women do put in effort or work when it comes to working on their appearance, fitness, body, but effort or work when it comes to actually trying to get a date or set up a date, form or establish a relationship, that is normally or obviously on the mans shoulders.

Simply not true. Women get rejected by the men they actually want to date all the time.

Most women end up settling for men they don't want who are their 2nd, 3rd or 4th choices.

How excited would you be about having to settle for those women?

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

If I would have to trade that burden for suffering menstruation cramps every month, I know what I'd choose.

Men and women are different. Equal, but not the same. Get used to it. Work on your masculinity. All this whining about the burden of manhood is not making you any more attractive. Grow cojones and become the man these women want to be with.

And then you can snub them and become gay.

"become the man women want to be with", yup, reminds me of a powerful statement from Rollo Tomassi, from his famous book "The Rational Male".

Men have to build and create, earn their value, Women have to protect and preserve their value"

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

If I would have to trade that burden for suffering menstruation cramps every month, I know what I'd choose.

Men and women are different. Equal, but not the same. Get used to it. Work on your masculinity. All this whining about the burden of manhood is not making you any more attractive. Grow cojones and become the man these women want to be with.

And then you can snub them and become gay.

yup, reminds me of a quote or a statement that from a guy that only added fuel to fire, as for whiners get the leftovers, or better yet, nothing yet, because even unattractive women still get repulsed by men who have behave the same way men do that make them unattractive to the 9s and 10s

 

[BackInTheGame78]

yup, reminds me of a quote or a statement that from a guy that only added fuel to fire, as for whiners get the leftovers, or better yet, nothing yet, because even unattractive women still get repulsed by men who have behave the same way men do that make them unattractive to the 9s and 10s

Yes because their behavior makes them far more uglier than their looks ever could. Which is so many good looking men struggle...their behavior is turning women off instead of turning them on.

They literally would do better by not even opening their mouths.

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

Yes because their behavior makes them far more uglier than their looks ever could. Which is so many good looking men struggle...their behavior is turning women off instead of turning them on.

They literally would do better by not even opening their mouths.

yup, the reverse or the other way around is normally not true as much

 

[BaronOfHair]

...reminds me of a powerful statement from Rollo Tomassi, from his famous book "The Rational Male".

Men have to build and create, earn their value, Women have to protect and preserve their value"

He's wrong though: No one HAS to do anything. It's HEALTHIER for us to spend less time groaning over all the s-it we find objectionable, and more setting pragmatically achievable goals, the probable ROIs of which are strong

This is a choice each person(regardless of gender)has to make