"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm about to enter a sub/dom contract pretty soon with a female.

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The girl is teaching me how this works, I am simply the person she has chosen to take her through this journey. DEEZEDBRAH can **** himself for the rest of his life for all I care.

Also, by that logic marriage would be illegal. It's consensual so I don't know what the problem would be. Looks like you Americans have got it tough if you've become so damn paranoid about this.

I am taking it quite seriously though so don't worry. Incel mother****ers. I'll add that I've done the legal research now and it's fine as long as it's consensual, even the beating. Comparable to boxing.

The quality of this forum has gone to complete and total sludge. This is the reason I don't like to post about good stuff that happens, because some motherfvcker is going to decide to trigger you in some way.

Perhaps the person in question might prefer to be tied up himself, and seething with jealousy is looking for attention. Get a hobby retard.

I'm gonna bring this girl into 7th heaven and then back down to earth and there ain't a thing you can do. So continue jerking off.

Have a nice day everybody and Mods, you may close this thread and I would be very greatful if you die because I am going to refrain from sharing more info. Sue me if you want cvnts.

In fact get the whole thread offline. If you would be so kind, mods.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Contract? lolz!!!
 

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BDSsM...

What is so arrousing about being tied up in the air, in leather, gagged, spanked until blood shows, whipped with an actual whip, and otherwise near violent acts during sex?

I'm all for rough sex but BDSsM takes it too far.

I personally believe that anyone who enjoys BDSsM has mental issues.
 

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Also to add,

That "contract" means nothing.

There's a reason why marriage licenses need to be notarized. Whatever is stated in that "contract" can get the entire thing dismissed in court if it doesn't follow state/federal laws.

Also, something like that has to be notarized. Allowing you/yourself to participate in such manners, that purposely exposes you to sexual violence, would probably never even get notarized- I doubt any court would even accept it if it were to somehow get notarized.

You'd probably get laughed at in court. The entire Sub/Dom thing is stupid.
 

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You'd probably get laughed at in court. The entire Sub/Dom thing is stupid.
I don't think the point of such a contract is so that it will hold up in court, I'm sure it wouldn't. It's just an agreement between two people.

You can say the BDSsM stuff is stupid, and maybe it is. But sex isn't about intelligence, it's about primal feelings. If you think about it, most sex is about dominance and submission in some way or other. Some people just take it farther than others.

Most girls enjoy this in some form, whether it be a light spanking, getting choked, slammed up against the wall and kissed, or whatever.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't the point of such a contract is so that it will hold up in court, I'm sure it wouldn't. It's just an agreement between two people.

You can say the BDSsM stuff is stupid, and maybe it is. But sex isn't about intelligence, it's about primal feelings. If you think about it, most sex is about dominance and submission in some way or other. Some people just take it farther than others.

Most girls enjoy this in some form, whether it be a light spanking, getting choked, slammed up against the wall and kissed, or whatever.
Rough sex and BDSsM are different.

The actions you mentioned are rough sex. BDSsM takes it much further than that.

Complete submission, and complete dominance, during sex is not healthy.

Every woman that I've met, who was into BDSsM, had some mental issues of crazy. You can't possibly tell me that being hurt to the point of blood during sex is healthy.
 

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BDSsM...

What is so arrousing about being tied up in the air, in leather, gagged, spanked until blood shows, whipped with an actual whip, and otherwise near violent acts during sex?

I'm all for rough sex but BDSsM takes it too far.

I personally believe that anyone who enjoys BDSsM has mental issues.
A once in a while fantasy I don't think it's so bad, but to need it like this I agree is a huge mental issue on both behalfs.
 

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BDSsM...

What is so arrousing about being tied up in the air, in leather, gagged, spanked until blood shows, whipped with an actual whip, and otherwise near violent acts during sex?

I'm all for rough sex but BDSsM takes it too far.

I personally believe that anyone who enjoys BDSsM has mental issues.
Well yeah most aspects of human psychology are dark and ****ed up if you put enough thought into them

That's why you shouldn't do that
 

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Rough sex and BDSsM are different.
I disagree, I think it's just degrees of the same thing.
I'm sure it can be taken too far, but most BDSsM does not involve shedding blood.
Anyway, IMO it's just individual preference.
 
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