"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm a "weird" guy

we all eat food

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Most people think of me as weird or awkward, but i just have a really imaginative mind and thought process, girls tell me that im weird and awkward or just crazy in wild. So to girls, is that a bad thing, id rather be that then boring and everyone else.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Awkward and Weird = bad
Crazy and Wild = good

Find out what makes girls call you awkward and weird and get rid of that. Keep the crazy though.
 

thursday

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depends

some girls really dig that, but only if you are good looking.

however, it's not too difficult to convert weird and awkward into interesting, and mysterious.. same thing really just with more confidence..
 

The Juan and only

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A quirky personality can be a good thing, but I get the impression that you also harbor a trace of immaturity, perhaps deliberately trying to be outspoken and different ("not boring like normal people") at totally inappropriate times, or with a certain lack of finesse. Don't worry, you'll probably calm down a bit as you get older.

And that wasn't meant to be condescending, those are just my thoughts.
 

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Works for me - You do need to refine your attitude so that you ARE original and not boring. Guaranteed that the girls will eat it up if you are doing your part right and being natural and honest with who you really are.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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