"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh my! it's like a big ol' reunion! I never thought I'd see BBB back AND see AC and vincent post in one thread! This is crazy!

But really man, this post was really inspiring but at the same time a little sad. I couldn't tell if you were proud or sad at the end. I guess it all evens out though, aye?

Well thanks for stopping by (maybe staying ;) )

-yours truly
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Brazilian_Blues_Boy said:
I would like to first sincerely, and deeply, :moon: all gentlemen, for the respect, to all the things I wrote.
:rock:
 

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I'm gonna have to keep this thread going.
 

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I like the attitude... mostly. However, I have yet to hear about any legendary things. You want to do a lot, but you aren't a legend until you show your sh!t
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wow.. the brazillianblueboy emits a strong sense of MAN .. even though i hardly know the person other than his posts in the bible
 

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The Antichrist_Star said:
I came across this and took it in...

Damn... this just made me want to start posting again...

AS
My thoughts exactly............. top stuff
 

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Brazilian_Blues_Boy said:
Like Cartman would say,

" I love you guys. "

LOL!!
=D

south park owns
 
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Man, your a legend dude. your threads inspire me, and make me feel confident and that girls arent all that ****, and they think they're all that, but in fact, we're the rulers on this planet, they are just pretty little faces beside us to make us look EVEN BETTER!
I can totally relate to most of your threads, your posts practically explain most of me! it's crazy...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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