"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oh my! it's like a big ol' reunion! I never thought I'd see BBB back AND see AC and vincent post in one thread! This is crazy!

But really man, this post was really inspiring but at the same time a little sad. I couldn't tell if you were proud or sad at the end. I guess it all evens out though, aye?

Well thanks for stopping by (maybe staying ;) )

-yours truly
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Brazilian_Blues_Boy said:
I would like to first sincerely, and deeply, :moon: all gentlemen, for the respect, to all the things I wrote.
:rock:
 

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I'm gonna have to keep this thread going.
 

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I like the attitude... mostly. However, I have yet to hear about any legendary things. You want to do a lot, but you aren't a legend until you show your sh!t
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wow.. the brazillianblueboy emits a strong sense of MAN .. even though i hardly know the person other than his posts in the bible
 

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The Antichrist_Star said:
I came across this and took it in...

Damn... this just made me want to start posting again...

AS
My thoughts exactly............. top stuff
 

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Brazilian_Blues_Boy said:
Like Cartman would say,

" I love you guys. "

LOL!!
=D

south park owns
 
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Man, your a legend dude. your threads inspire me, and make me feel confident and that girls arent all that ****, and they think they're all that, but in fact, we're the rulers on this planet, they are just pretty little faces beside us to make us look EVEN BETTER!
I can totally relate to most of your threads, your posts practically explain most of me! it's crazy...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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