"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm A Jerk And Girls Love It

juleswinns

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I'm coming to terms that being ****y helps attracting women. I've gotten dates and major IOI's from females since I've read the game a year ago. The only thing is that I'm only beginning to NOT feel guilty about being C&F. Anyone out there feels the same way?

C&F stories:

1. At my university I gave some girls my first C&F routine and I had all 3 of them facebook me. (My co-worker said they begged her for my full name so they could search me)

2. Got two dates with random girls I met on campus.

3. One time I put a girl in a head lock (playfully of course) and now every time I talk to her she gives me those puppy dog eyes. Actually should I go out with a co-worker???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Congratulations. :up: FYI, there's a big difference between C/F and being a jerk. Using C/F is an art, anyone can be a jerk.
 

ChrizZ

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Hmm, I don´t know. I´m using a lot of c&f and the chicks laugh all the time, but still they´re not attracted to me although I´m good looking.
 

flexion_

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Don't go out with a co-worker if you can help it. Glad to see you have made some changes for the better.
 

ScrewIt

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thats great. it does work. although the only thing i can say there's a thin line being c&f and insulting, know your limits. I've crossed it once or twice only to stop and realize I said something i shouldnt have.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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insanity

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screwit, ****y and funny is awesome. but the best material comes from, what you meant to say comes out and you don't hold back. thats the real you. ever notice that when you seem to have a girlfriend, all these chicks seem to be more attracted to you. i usually found that it's because you don't hold back anything you say because you have a girlfriend and it doesn't really matter what the other girls think of you. hence thats what attracts them. they sense no desperation and your not placing them up on a pedastal.
 
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