"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm A Jerk And Girls Love It

juleswinns

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I'm coming to terms that being ****y helps attracting women. I've gotten dates and major IOI's from females since I've read the game a year ago. The only thing is that I'm only beginning to NOT feel guilty about being C&F. Anyone out there feels the same way?

C&F stories:

1. At my university I gave some girls my first C&F routine and I had all 3 of them facebook me. (My co-worker said they begged her for my full name so they could search me)

2. Got two dates with random girls I met on campus.

3. One time I put a girl in a head lock (playfully of course) and now every time I talk to her she gives me those puppy dog eyes. Actually should I go out with a co-worker???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Congratulations. :up: FYI, there's a big difference between C/F and being a jerk. Using C/F is an art, anyone can be a jerk.
 

ChrizZ

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Hmm, I don´t know. I´m using a lot of c&f and the chicks laugh all the time, but still they´re not attracted to me although I´m good looking.
 

flexion_

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Don't go out with a co-worker if you can help it. Glad to see you have made some changes for the better.
 

ScrewIt

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thats great. it does work. although the only thing i can say there's a thin line being c&f and insulting, know your limits. I've crossed it once or twice only to stop and realize I said something i shouldnt have.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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insanity

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screwit, ****y and funny is awesome. but the best material comes from, what you meant to say comes out and you don't hold back. thats the real you. ever notice that when you seem to have a girlfriend, all these chicks seem to be more attracted to you. i usually found that it's because you don't hold back anything you say because you have a girlfriend and it doesn't really matter what the other girls think of you. hence thats what attracts them. they sense no desperation and your not placing them up on a pedastal.
 
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