"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm A Jerk And Girls Love It

juleswinns

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I'm coming to terms that being ****y helps attracting women. I've gotten dates and major IOI's from females since I've read the game a year ago. The only thing is that I'm only beginning to NOT feel guilty about being C&F. Anyone out there feels the same way?

C&F stories:

1. At my university I gave some girls my first C&F routine and I had all 3 of them facebook me. (My co-worker said they begged her for my full name so they could search me)

2. Got two dates with random girls I met on campus.

3. One time I put a girl in a head lock (playfully of course) and now every time I talk to her she gives me those puppy dog eyes. Actually should I go out with a co-worker???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Congratulations. :up: FYI, there's a big difference between C/F and being a jerk. Using C/F is an art, anyone can be a jerk.
 

ChrizZ

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Hmm, I don´t know. I´m using a lot of c&f and the chicks laugh all the time, but still they´re not attracted to me although I´m good looking.
 

flexion_

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Don't go out with a co-worker if you can help it. Glad to see you have made some changes for the better.
 

ScrewIt

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thats great. it does work. although the only thing i can say there's a thin line being c&f and insulting, know your limits. I've crossed it once or twice only to stop and realize I said something i shouldnt have.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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insanity

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screwit, ****y and funny is awesome. but the best material comes from, what you meant to say comes out and you don't hold back. thats the real you. ever notice that when you seem to have a girlfriend, all these chicks seem to be more attracted to you. i usually found that it's because you don't hold back anything you say because you have a girlfriend and it doesn't really matter what the other girls think of you. hence thats what attracts them. they sense no desperation and your not placing them up on a pedastal.
 
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