"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So I came to stay at my best friend of 10 years place right? Unfortunately he is on parole because he decided to be a heroin addict. Near the chicago area this truly is a big epidemic.

Now I live in the land of lakes at this time, its almost :),nearly almost impossible to have job unless you have a care.

But guess the fvck what, you sons of b!tches. I was laying here drunk thinking about how I'm going tohav e to goto milwaukee and stay at a shelter to find a job and move up.

I just got a call from the landscaping compay (which I am an amazing landscaper, I mean I used to work in Indian hills, Ohio, I know how to make sh!t look tight as a fvck, I'm good at it) they just called me. I explained my experiance, and my situation. I told this fvcker I dont have a ride. He said just pack a lunch ect ect. (sadly I cant afford a lunch right now, but I can work.) Look I'm a devil dog, I dont need sleep or food, water will keep you alive a long time, believe it or not.

They will pick me up around 5:15 am, but I will be ready at 4:30 am.

I love nature, I love plants, I love landscaping, and I'm fit, valid drivers licences, I can drive dump trucks and trailers.

This is exactly the opportunity I need to turn my sh!t around.

I'm so happy.

Fvck. :up: :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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And they are going to come pick me up for work. Im so happy it almost makes me angry... I have fvcking job that is going to come to where I live. I bet its at least 10 per hour. Thats so much more than I make now. I dont mind the physical labor part, I will be the manager soon. I'm 26 now, no more stupid gaames. I'm so happy now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this is a good da. Fvck yea. I'm going to get it!!!!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6Sxv-sUYtM
 

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Congrats Sir! :rockon: I agree with Mike32ct, start saving ASAP. That's always a good idea no matter when or what your work is but especially in seasonal work.
 

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noobolgy said:
So I came to stay at my best friend of 10 years place right? Unfortunately he is on parole because he decided to be a heroin addict. Near the chicago area this truly is a big epidemic.

Now I live in the land of lakes at this time, its almost :),nearly almost impossible to have job unless you have a care.

But guess the fvck what, you sons of b!tches. I was laying here drunk thinking about how I'm going tohav e to goto milwaukee and stay at a shelter to find a job and move up.

I just got a call from the landscaping compay (which I am an amazing landscaper, I mean I used to work in Indian hills, Ohio, I know how to make sh!t look tight as a fvck, I'm good at it) they just called me. I explained my experiance, and my situation. I told this fvcker I dont have a ride. He said just pack a lunch ect ect. (sadly I cant afford a lunch right now, but I can work.) Look I'm a devil dog, I dont need sleep or food, water will keep you alive a long time, believe it or not.

They will pick me up around 5:15 am, but I will be ready at 4:30 am.

I love nature, I love plants, I love landscaping, and I'm fit, valid drivers licences, I can drive dump trucks and trailers.

This is exactly the opportunity I need to turn my sh!t around.

I'm so happy.

Fvck. :up: :up:
Congratz

but how in the world you don't have food to eat, but you have internet to post this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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