"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm a good friend, but she saw something and I did nothing

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First of all, i'm a pvssy.
I know that.. I'm here just because I want to change that.
a girl I know, I confessed to today, said she saw me only as a good friend. She said she thought not long ago about something but I did nothing so she dropped..
for my excuse I was sure she had a BF, and was shocked when I found out they broke up, and actually made a slow move once then..
wanted to ask, wtf am I supposed to do.. and is the deal gone? or something is possible to change her idea?
I got rejected few times already (made a cry-out in the forum) kept on going.. but I got some problems.. I'm bad and expressing my actual feelings.. (I say, hey lets hang out, instead of hey, lets go only me and you somewhere) second, I'm scared of intimacy.. probably a childhood problem.. but I'm scared to kiss a girl.. (take her to the side and so on..)
And please, for gods sake, I need help with this problems.. and I must know If after she said that something is possible or i'll drop?
tbh, rn I won't do anything, if you say there is something I'll try it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jojo18 said:
First of all, i'm a pvssy.
I know that.. I'm here just because I want to change that.
a girl I know, I confessed to today, said she saw me only as a good friend. She said she thought not long ago about something but I did nothing so she dropped..
for my excuse I was sure she had a BF, and was shocked when I found out they broke up, and actually made a slow move once then..
wanted to ask, wtf am I supposed to do.. and is the deal gone? or something is possible to change her idea?
I got rejected few times already (made a cry-out in the forum) kept on going.. but I got some problems.. I'm bad and expressing my actual feelings.. (I say, hey lets hang out, instead of hey, lets go only me and you somewhere) second, I'm scared of intimacy.. probably a childhood problem.. but I'm scared to kiss a girl.. (take her to the side and so on..)
And please, for gods sake, I need help with this problems.. and I must know If after she said that something is possible or i'll drop?
tbh, rn I won't do anything, if you say there is something I'll try it.
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Ok, few things. It may sound harsh. You and her are done. Ghost her. No contact. Move on. There are better women. My main advise is work on improving yourself. Your style. Gym. Things that will improve your mindset.
Now, I have a reading list for you.
DJ Bible
The Book of Pook
The Rational Male

Welcome to the forum by the way.
 
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