"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm a good friend, but she saw something and I did nothing

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First of all, i'm a pvssy.
I know that.. I'm here just because I want to change that.
a girl I know, I confessed to today, said she saw me only as a good friend. She said she thought not long ago about something but I did nothing so she dropped..
for my excuse I was sure she had a BF, and was shocked when I found out they broke up, and actually made a slow move once then..
wanted to ask, wtf am I supposed to do.. and is the deal gone? or something is possible to change her idea?
I got rejected few times already (made a cry-out in the forum) kept on going.. but I got some problems.. I'm bad and expressing my actual feelings.. (I say, hey lets hang out, instead of hey, lets go only me and you somewhere) second, I'm scared of intimacy.. probably a childhood problem.. but I'm scared to kiss a girl.. (take her to the side and so on..)
And please, for gods sake, I need help with this problems.. and I must know If after she said that something is possible or i'll drop?
tbh, rn I won't do anything, if you say there is something I'll try it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jojo18 said:
First of all, i'm a pvssy.
I know that.. I'm here just because I want to change that.
a girl I know, I confessed to today, said she saw me only as a good friend. She said she thought not long ago about something but I did nothing so she dropped..
for my excuse I was sure she had a BF, and was shocked when I found out they broke up, and actually made a slow move once then..
wanted to ask, wtf am I supposed to do.. and is the deal gone? or something is possible to change her idea?
I got rejected few times already (made a cry-out in the forum) kept on going.. but I got some problems.. I'm bad and expressing my actual feelings.. (I say, hey lets hang out, instead of hey, lets go only me and you somewhere) second, I'm scared of intimacy.. probably a childhood problem.. but I'm scared to kiss a girl.. (take her to the side and so on..)
And please, for gods sake, I need help with this problems.. and I must know If after she said that something is possible or i'll drop?
tbh, rn I won't do anything, if you say there is something I'll try it.
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Ok, few things. It may sound harsh. You and her are done. Ghost her. No contact. Move on. There are better women. My main advise is work on improving yourself. Your style. Gym. Things that will improve your mindset.
Now, I have a reading list for you.
DJ Bible
The Book of Pook
The Rational Male

Welcome to the forum by the way.
 
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