I find this to be totally off base. There was a time in my life when I was young and had what is known as the irrational self confidence. EVERY chick I came across was attracted, and even if they tried to hide it, they couldn't for Long. Those days are long gone, but still there isnt a girl out there that doesnt find me handsome. I just dont have the confidence i once had to effortlessly get any girl I want like back then.I think a lot of that stems from the mistaken idea that we men can and should be universally attractive to women, just as women can be universally attractive to men. The fact it that every single one of us will only appeal to a subset of women.
Therefore, it is absolutely inevitable that most women will not be attracted to us. Therefore, those felt “rejections” should be statistically insignificant to us.
One of the biggest sources of pain for men is the illusion that we can be universally attractive. This is utterly impossible. The opposite is not true for women. They can in fact be universally attractive.
We must understand the numbers (which are inevitable) and work them to our advantage. It’s a lot like sales being a numbers game... I need to talk to X amount of prospects to make one sale...
However, a man can approach perhaps a 50% attractiveness rate if he really gets his act together. That’s because before he has it together, he is invisible to upper echelon women. Once he becomes visible he realizes that 50% is total abundance.