"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm a fat girl magnet, I seriously can't stop attracting fat girls

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Develop muscles. Get ab etching. The more masculine you look, the better your chances are of getting a beautiful woman who'll make you erect and all.

The fine for being too skinny with the nice guy look is little female attention from fine women and fat chicks who think they have a chance. Read the above paragraph to learn how to be relieved of this fine.

Case closed. Court is adjourned.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is a very amusing thread.

Advice: just ignore them completely. Ignore your own thread that you've created. Start thinking about the girls you are attracted, not the girls you are unattracted to.

It's like those women who want to lose weight, but only think about fat, and all the foods they fear will make them fat. The more they think about those foods, the more tempted they are. The more tempted they are, the more likely they are to eat those foods. Hence, they attract more fat.
 

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I used to get hit on by gay guys all the time. Thankfully I don't anymore simply because I instinctively know when it is happening. I have a toned physique and think a lot of women still prefer a Brad Pitt or David Beckam type body as opposed to straight out bodybuilder. One thing I have notised is that there are a lot of women who are reasonably attractive and often quite hot who are around 150-154lb. Sure they would need a bit of height on them. I have always preferred women who weigh under 60kg or 132lb, these days more and more women are around 150-154 and up. I usually like a women lighter than myself, have started notising women slightly heavier than myself as being attractive, still not real fond of heafers though.:cool:
 

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Bump, I HATE fat girls so much guys and they won't stop hitting on me. All the input is much valued.
 

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Let me ask a quick question about this:
Are some of you saying that if you are better looking or higher value then fat girls will NOT hit on you? Because you are so obviously out of their league? Because that seems to be what is being implied. I'm not sure I agree with that. If you are attractive, fat girls will be attracted to you as much as any other woman, IMO.

There could be an exception based on the situation. For instance, if you are in a public place with a lot of really hot thin girls all over you, they might get the hint and stay away.
Also, I suppose it's possible that the more muscular you get, the fewer fat girls you will attract, if you believe that theory about fat girls being attracted to skinny men because they want to be skinny themselves.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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zekko said:
I'm not sure I agree with that. If you are attractive, fat girls will be attracted to you as much as any other woman, IMO.
Not true. Are you familiar with DJ Qualls? Well, do a Google image search if you don't know who he is. If a fat girl likes DJ Qualls then I wouldn't say in-shape girls like him too. He's the type of guy that would only appeal to a fatter girl.
 

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If a fat girl likes DJ Qualls then I wouldn't say in-shape girls like him too. He's the type of guy that would only appeal to a fatter girl.
You're saying that because a fat girl might like a thin guy that she would not be attracted to an in shape guy. I disagree. All types of girls will be attracted to an in shape guy.

You're saying that fat girls are only attracted to unattractive males basically. Again, I disagree. You don't think the fat girls would like to be able to get the guys that the hot girls get?
 

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zekko said:
You're saying that because a fat girl might like a thin guy that she would not be attracted to an in shape guy. I disagree. All types of girls will be attracted to an in shape guy.

You're saying that fat girls are only attracted to unattractive males basically. Again, I disagree. You don't think the fat girls would like to be able to get the guys that the hot girls get?
I'm just saying that if a fat girl likes a guy that looks like this, then that doesn't automatically mean that in-shape girls like him too.

http://z.about.com/d/movies/1/0/a/S/O/alphadogprempic14.jpg

Now a fat girl and an in-shape girl might both like a guy who looks like this:

http://aretheyserious.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/matthew_mcconaughey.jpg

BUT I think the fat girl can identify more with the extremely skinny guy more than she can the same guy every other girl likes.
 

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Bobby Rio said:
Dude..i've banged a lot of girls. A LOT of hot girls..

And I still bang fatties from time to time. Never have trouble getting it up.

"Its all just practice for the big game"

Way I look at...
Just curious, what is the ratio of fat girls to in-shape girls that you've had sex with? I've often heard that guys who have sex with lots of girls will have sex with a fat girl every once in a while just to sort of keep the ball rolling I guess you could say. Is this true?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I hate fat girls with a passion.

Sweaty, ugly, often wearing clothes too small for them, and then to top it off they moan about being overweight as if it's some type of disability!

Just make it blaitently obvious you're not interested. I don't necessarily mean being rude to them but body language etc etc, although I do take the point that fat girls often just go for you anyway even though you seem to not be remotely interested.
 

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Just make it blaitently obvious you're not interested. I don't necessarily mean being rude to them but body language etc etc,
I am blatantly rude to them, but it just seems to make them want me all the more.
 

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LuisGarcia10 said:
Just make it blaitently obvious you're not interested.
I've tried that. I've tried everything. I've tried being mean, being nice, being neutral, it doesn't matter. Fat girls can't seem to take a hint and get it through their fat thick head of theirs that a guy doesn't like them.
 

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Pass some of those fat slvts to me lazi...

at least 1,000 fat girls have hit on me
Cut yourself off from the fat farm, thereby reducing the number of these incidents.

Why fat chicks like tall toothpick-looking guys is beyond comprehension. It's bizarre. They never seem to be attracted to FAT guys. I would imagine that fat chicks would feel even FATTER when they're beside an emaciated guy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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